Jason's thought's...

Students start ministry to men with ponytails

2009-12-14T23:22:00.000-08:00

ST. PAUL – College students from a Bible school here have started an unusual outreach program to men with ponytails.

“We consider them a distinct unreached people group,” says Bart NKomo, 23, from St. Paul Bible College. “That ponytail is really a cry for help.”

The group of 13 sophomores and juniors pioneered their effort by visiting nature food stores, biker bars, Dead concerts and music shops – places with high concentrations of ponytailed men.

I'd love to hear your thoughts :)

(I'll reveal my source after a few comments)

My final week under House Arrest (5 of 7)

2009-08-20T11:25:00.000-07:00

Sitting here thinking that I have a couple of hours left is incredible. In all honesty, I actually wondered many times if this day would actually come… Tomorrow my life will change for the better. I’m both nervous and excited! Weird I know… let me explain why I feel this way.

For some, well… actually for most, my life will just go back to normal. For me however, my life takes on a whole new perspective!

Why?

Well… my life is not going back to what it was before my accident! It’s taking on a whole new sphere… Now, when I’m walking on the beach and I feel the sand between my toes, I won’t take it for granted as I used to. Now I will feel the sensation of freedom running between my toes… I will smell the scent of freedom which the ocean gives off…

Freedom has taken and will take on a whole new perspective for me.

Being allowed out of my house is not quite the same as what it used to be… nor will it ever be!

HERE’S TO MY NEW LIFE!!!

My final week under House Arrest (4 of 7)

2009-08-19T00:57:00.000-07:00

Re-Post of House Arrest (4 of 4)

What I’ve learned

Going through something traumatic may not be great in ones eyes at that moment. It may just seem like the world is collapsing around you and all hell is breaking loose… Well, it seemed like that for me on the day of my accident. I can still recall the sounds of the helicopter’s propellers, the sounds of the police radios, the ambulance sirens… It was a rough day, I can’t deny that. I’ll even admit that for a small amount of time God was not the most popular person on my list. We went from buddies to me thinking that He was (because this is not a 18 and over blog, I have decided to remove the bad words from this sentence).

Well, all was not lost. A friend told me that I really inspired her with my faith as she drove away from the accident site. On her way to take me home, I turned to her with tears in my eyes and said, “I’m not sure what He’s up to, but I know God will pull me through this and He does have a plan.” As I slowly move on in time an think back, I’m beginning to recall conversations like that. It still blows my mind that I was that faithful to God (despite my short lived temper out burst mentioned earlier). So, that just goes to show that I’m still learning and probably will for many years to come.

What I have learned however which I feel so many take for granted is the freedom which is granted in Christ. So many times I hear people say that they are free in Christ and I now can’t help but wonder if they really are aware what it truly means to be free in Christ. It hurt, a lot, when I sat in the common room at my college and watched the students of the college laughing and giggling, unaware of just what freedom is. Unaware of the gift that has so freely been given to them. Unaware of what it truly means to be free.

I can remember going home and lying in my bed at night wondering what was going to happen to me. I lost weight, I couldn’t sleep, my marks at college dropped… I was a wreck, until it hit me. Paul’s letter to the church of Philippi suddenly took on a whole new perspective. I was free in Christ… I was able to find the true meaning of freedom and it was GREAT. I was eventually free and I was lead towards a greater understanding of joy. I now feel I can relate to the Apostle Paul as he sat in a prison cell, with minimal food and water, possibly not even sure if he’d make it to the next day or not and a worry in his mind. I always thought this guy (Paul) was a psycho… But now… now I know from where the letter was written. The letter is amazingly beautiful!!! I have never before read such a heart felt letter!!!

Even as I write this blog, I’m having difficulty keeping it short. I just want to go on and on and on about the freedom in the true and living God I NOW KNOW. The true joy found in suffering for Christ… There is just so much and I honestly could probably do a whole week on what I’ve learned from this experience… If you asked me to sum up my feelings, I’d ask you to watch an eagle fly… the image says all I’d say.

I hope this past week has in some way helped answer some of the questions you may have had revolving my whole ordeal. In the very same breathe, I hope that in some way I’ve been able to help you think about your rough patches in life and to make you realize, they more beautiful then you think…

Have you really experienced the freedom Paul talks about? Do you know of this joy he talks about?

My final week under House Arrest (3 of 7)

2009-08-17T08:34:00.000-07:00

Re-Post of House Arrest (3 of 4)

How I stay sane well spending so much time at home

Let me start off by stating that it is not easy. I do have my days where I feel like I’m sitting in a cage while the world carries on spinning around me. It has been a humbling experience for me to experience what it means to be placed under house as it shows one that whether or not you’re apart of the world, it’s going to carry on spinning.

Firstly I consider myself fortunate to be doing my time in an actual house. During my various meetings at the Correctional Department in Cape Town, I have meet many who are in a far worse state then I. I have meet some who are having to do their time in a shack within a informal settlement. This is heart breaking and again reminds me that despite my situation, I am better of then many others.

Being a student, I am always busy, be it with readings, assignments, presentations etc. It is possibly the one thing that grabs my time and really consumes it. During the college terms, I barely feel my house arrest as I barely have time to even think about. However, the terms at college do come to an end and I am then faced with the reality of what being under house arrest means. It is challenging as I find things to keep my mind busy.

I am fortunate enough to have a internet connection at home, so I use a large amount of my time reading and blogging online. Apart from that, I do play the occasional online game... I must also admit, (not that I'm sorry for it) that my personal library has grown quite substantially as I now have quite a large amount of time to spend reading. But as my lecturers keep saying, "That's a goooooood thing!!!"

I have also used the time in a practical manner to attack things that need to be done around the house. The past 4 months I have spent time painting, with my ipod in my pocket keeping me going. It's amazing how much information is available out there in terms of podcasts...

There are many other small things which keep me going, but these are the general things I do to get me from day to day…

Tomorrow I will share what it is that I have learned from being under house arrest. I will share how I have taken what seems to be a horrific and unfair event for many, and changed it into what I believe to be a blessing from God.

If you were under house arrest, how would you keep yourself busy?

My final week under House Arrest (2 of 7)

2009-08-17T01:25:00.000-07:00

My apologies for not posting this yesterday! Today will I will do a double post to get you all back to speed.With that said, this is the second installment of "House Arrest."

House Arrest (2 of 4)

So what does being under house arrest mean?

Well, being under house arrest is really not as bad as many seem to think it is. Although, I must admit I am better off then many others who are under house arrest. Basically what being under house arrest means is that I’m in jail but not really in jail. Thank God for that!!! In my case, my jail cell is my house.

With the jail concept in mind, you’ll now begin to understand the various rights that have been taken away from me. So, I’m therefore not allowed off my property unless I have been granted permission by my parole officer. At times this can be a pain, but at others, it sometimes is beneficial for me. Obviously because I’m under house arrest my entire life has not been taken away from me. Therefore, I am still expected to make money in order to survive as well as obtain an education for myself.

With this in mind, I am therefore ONLY allowed to be on one of the following properties: My college campus, my employers property, my house and then once a week I am entitled to attend a church service. On Saturdays, I am then required to do a min of 5 hours community service at my local police station. These generally means basic clean up of the station. After my community service, I am granted 5 hours free time (which I get on a weekly basis) to do with as I please. Oh and before I forget, I don’t wear a ankle bracelet like the Americans do (Thank God!!!). I just get surprise checks at my residence by various correctional officers… You get used to them after a while, even if it’s at 3am…

I hope this in some way helps to explain what it means for one to be under house arrest… Tomorrow I will share how it is that I’ve trained myself to remain calm and focused. I’ll share what it is that I do to keep my mind in shape and how I actually enjoy my time at home…

Have you got any questions relating house arrest? Have you experienced anything similar or know of someone who has?

My final week under House Arrest (1 of 7)

2009-08-15T12:34:00.000-07:00

For the past 5 days people have been asking me what it is I’m counting down to. It is for that very reason I thought it would be a good idea to bring my blogging sabbatical to an end and bring my passion for blogging back to the surface. I’ve enjoyed the break…

So, what I’d like to do over the next 6 days is share my story as I have previously shared it (I will be re-posting my House Arrest Series) as well as what I have learned over the past 2 years of being confined to the piece of land I call home.

With that said, let’s dive straight in then with the first installment of “House Arrest.”

House Arrest (1 of 4)

This week I thought I would answer some of the many questions I get in relation to my house arrest… Hopefully by the end of the week I would have answered some of the questions you may be wanting to ask me…

How I landed up being under house arrest

On the 19th of February 2006, I was involved in a car accident which resulted sadly (a couple of weeks later), in a death. Because I was the only driver still alive, I was charged and summonsed to appear in the local magistrates court. It was quite a nerve wrecking experience and I would suggest to all, if at all possible, stay away. The court room seems to be an area which just sucks all the living energy out of you in a matter of minutes. If you for any reason need to spend time in the court room, surround yourself with loved ones. They are and will be your backbone…

After a year and half (more or less) of trying to defend myself and keep out of our national prison, the case was finally brought to a close. It was an emotional time for me as I stood before the magistrate and waited to hear her sentencing. It is absolutely terrifying knowing that the person in front of you has all the power in the world to end your life there and then. I can still remember the feeling of the sweat running down the back of my neck as I prayed “Lord, PLEASE! If there was ever a time I believed in you, it is now!!!”

Finally, after reading literally everything that was said throughout the case hearings (over the year and a half), she finally got to the words, “I therefore sentence you to…” Those five words determined the practical outcome of my life, whether I liked it or not. She ended off with, “24 months house arrest and no more than 18 hours community service each month for the duration of your sentence.”

The beauty of the experience was how I learned what it means to truly know the peace of Christ. So often, like many others, I would blabber on and on about the peace of Christ and how I knew it and so on… The truth was, I had no idea what it really was until I really needed to know it. My first experience within the court room was one of absolute terror. It is only by the grace of God I didn’t pass out. Those around me referred to me as a ghost. Kinda scary if you think about it…

The morning before my second appearance, I decided to pray, even if it was just a 30 second prayer. I was going to ask God for help, and I was going to believe that he would and could help me. From that morning on, I was nervous in the court room, but no where near as nervous as my first appearance. The sense of peace I felt within my heart was unbelievable and pretty much impossible to describe in words. I learned, through receiving a life changing sentence, that God’s love is real. More real than you could possibly ever imagine.

Tomorrow I will explain what it means to be under house arrest whilst fulfilling a commitment of 432 hours of community service.

Have you ever experienced a similar event where the peace of God seemed so real?

Metro cops steal R113 000

2009-06-18T23:54:00.000-07:00

With the 2010 Soccer World Cup just around the corner, is this really the image we're wanting to portray? Not only can't you trust the guy in the street but you can't trust the police either!!!

Metro cops steal R113 000

Johannesburg - Two Johannesburg metro police officers were arrested on Thursday after allegedly robbing a man of €10 000 (R113 000) outside Montecasino in Fourways.

The officers allegedly stopped and robbed the man, who was driving from the casino, and stole his money on Wednesday night, metro police spokesperson Chief Superintendent Wayne Minnaar said.

"The victim reported the matter on Thursday morning and the two officers were arrested following an intensive investigation by the police, who then tracked the police vehicle that was patrolling in that vicinity.

"We will not tolerate corruption from officials and we will deal with any corrupt officer."

The arrested officers would appear in court soon on charges of robbery and fraud.

Minnaar could not confirm whether the man who was robbed was a European citizen or not.

"Police are still conducting investigations." - SAPA

(Story taken from here)

Passion could cause us problems...

2009-05-28T04:03:00.000-07:00

Some people just tend to forget it's a game... and there will always be a winner and then obviously a loser... the question is, where did we go wrong in controling our passion?

I mean it's great that the supporters support their team whole heartedly, props to them!

But where did it all go wrong?

Can we afford to have events such as the one in this article happen in SA during the 2010 WC?

How do we prevent this from happening???

Uncle Scam wants you!

2009-05-25T11:14:00.000-07:00

It's getting late... I don't usually blog this late but I really wanted to get this out in the open. I was amazed to see the story on the front page of the Cape Times titled, "Facebook users hit by scammers phishing attack."

It irritates me immensely how people do not think about what they are sharing on the net as well as what the links that they're clicking on.

I for one, do not click on any link that I feel uncomfortable with.

Emails are another area which irritate me... does it not seem weird when you get a email from some one you usually don't get an email from with the line, "Hey check this photo of you!" What about those emails from family members which are sooooo out of their character?

I know Hugh also gets frustrated with this kind of thing. I often come across blogs of his trying to explain to his readers who send him forwarded emails to open their eyes... eg. "You just won one million britian pound"

I've lost count of the times I've won a "million britian pound>" Am I the only one who is annoyed by people who don't read things properly?

Disclaimer (I openly admit that I often make mistakes whilst reading - but there needs to be a point surely, where we can spot these scams?)

Sex: Shock findings about youth

2009-05-12T00:50:00.000-07:00

After reading this article I was bit taken back... I think we have way more to do with regards to HIV then we thought we did!!!

Sex: Shock findings about youth
12/05/2009 08:04 - (SA)
Alicestine October, Die Burger

Cape Town - HIV/Aids can be transmitted via toilet seats, and the virus can be avoided by having a bath after sex.

Recently concluded research shows that these are some of the common beliefs among teenagers in the Anglican Church.

Last year the church commissioned research aimed at better understanding what its role can be in the battle against HIV/Aids among young people.

The University of Stellenbosch's unit for religious and developmental studies conducted the research among young Anglicans between the ages of 10 and 24, in 12 Anglican dioceses across the country.

A report on the research was presented at an HIV/Aids seminar at the University of Stellenbosch last week.

More than 10% sexually active.

Amongst other things, the research showed that more than 10% of young people between the ages of 10 and 13 are sexually active.

About 38% of respondents in this age group said that the pill can prevent HIV/Aids, and 30.4% believe that HIV can be transmitted via a toilet seat.

About 27% think that HIV infection can be prevented by bathing after sex.

Of the respondents, 97.1% described themselves as Christians, while more than 98% of them believe it is important to be healthy.

Nothing wrong with fondling.

The majority (63.5%) of those who have not yet had sex, feel that it is better to have sex only within the confines of marriage, while approximately two-thirds feel that there is nothing wrong with someone fondling them.

The researchers said that some of the more shocking findings, such as those about fondling, could be attributed to respondents misunderstanding the questions.

About 90% of the respondents indicated that they are worried about HIV.

According to the report, there is a gap between the values and morals which are adhered to on the one hand, and the behaviour which is exhibited on the other hand.

Thoughts?

(Article taken from here)

0 to 100 in a matter of seconds…

2009-05-06T02:08:00.000-07:00

I think the Church has a serious problem (nothing new there! LoL!!!). There seems to be two sides of the fence which one is expected to experience. Yet the climb over is to be done alone…

I’m talking about sex…

Christians believe that if you’re not married you should abstain. Keep to yourself. I agree whole heartedly in this as I am aware of the damage sexual relations can cause outside of marriage.

The other side of the fence is when one is in marriage. Here you are expected to have sex and if you aren’t having sexual intercourse with your partner, then the Church sees you as having marital problems. Oh and I’m all for the sex in marriage! :)

Here’s the issue: One moment you’re expected to be keeping to yourself and the next you’re expected to be going at it with full force.

What about the trip from not doing it at all to doing it at full throttle? Where is the guidance? Should there be any guidance?

Perhaps I’m the only one who thinks this way, but surely we as the Church should provide some sort of sexual guidance to the newly weds?

Your thoughts?

8-year-old Saudi girl granted a divorce after international outcry

2009-05-04T02:04:00.001-07:00

This is a follow up to my post: "Court approves marriage of girl, 8" (Posted 20th of April 2009)

8-year-old Saudi girl granted a divorce after international outcry

May 01, 2009 Edition 1

RIYADH: An eight-year-old Saudi Arabian girl who was sold into marriage by her father has been given a divorce after an international outcry, according to Saudi media.

The marriage of the girl to a man reportedly in his 50s was annulled on Wednesday in an out-of-court settlement overseen by a new judge in the city of Onaiza, after the original judge in the case refused to bend to pressure to grant the divorce, newspapers reported.

Riyadh newspapers said the settlement was reached after the intervention in the case by an "important personality".

The girl's father had sold her last year to the man in exchange for a dowry. When her mother found out, she petitioned the court for a divorce for the girl.

The judge twice rejected her case - though he stipulated that the marriage could only be consummated after the girl reached puberty. An appeals court sent the case back to the judge to reconsider, but he again ruled against divorce.

The case garnered strong criticism from international rights groups, and foreign diplomats raised the issue quietly with the Saudi government, according to sources.

United Nations Children's Fund executive director Anne Veneman had said the child's rights were being violated. "Unicef joins many in voicing concern that child marriage contravenes accepted international standards of human rights," she said.

While child marriage is not widespread in Saudi Arabia, the traditional practice has been condoned by some clerics, who say it is supported in Islamic teachings.

Saudi judges have frequently upheld child marriages based on their interpretations of Islamic sharia law.

But last week, at least two committees of the country's legislature, the Shura Council, were discussing a new law that would set the minimum marriage age at 18. - Sapa-AFP

Any thoughts?

(Original story taken from here)

Marriage Quotes By Men...

2009-04-30T11:43:00.000-07:00

A good mate of mine sent me these qoutes and they really made me laugh! I couldn't help but share them with you guys.

1.) I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always.

2.) It's not true that married men live longer than single men. It only seems longer.

3.) A man was complaining to a friend: 'I had it all - money, a beautiful house, a big car, the love of a beautiful woman; then, Pow! it was all gone!' 'What happened?' asked the friend. "My wife found out.."

4.) Wife: Let's go out and have some fun tonight. Husband: Okay, but if you get home before I do, leave the hallway light on.

5.) How many men does it take to open a beer? None. It should be opened by the time she brings it to the couch.

6.) A man rushes into his house and yells to his wife, "Martha, pack up your things! I just won the lottery!" Martha replies, "Shall I pack for warm weather or cold?" The man responds, "I don't care. Just so long as you're out of the house by noon!"

7.) If your wife and a lawyer were drowning and you had to choose, would you go to lunch or to a movie?

8.) A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished.

Do you know any other funny quotes?

Little white envelopes please… or not!

2009-04-28T01:37:00.000-07:00

Ok… so we’ve started designing the invitations. Who would’ve thought that so much thought would have to go into such a small project? Well, maybe the ladies reading this would understand the amount of time taken to produce those ‘perfect’ invitations, but I’m not to sure the guys would/do.

But that’s not the purpose of this note. We’ve (Megs says its only me though) hit a slight bump which we’re trying to maneuver our way either through or alternatively over. Let me explain…

For around 2-3 years I lived on my own, thereby accumulating pretty much everything one needs to live reasonably comfortably. Ok, so Megan doesn’t approve of all of my ‘manhood’ stuff so I suppose I would have to get rid of some of the stuff. Anyway, the point is, we have what we need to live: Crockery, Cutlery, Toothpaste, Dishwashing Liquid, Toilet Paper etc.

This is where our dilemma begins to take shape…

We don’t really need anything besides the big things which I’ve already blogged about – Stove, Fridge, Washing Machine etc. Feel free to donate those things should you feel lead to do so! Lol!!!
Most people would give toasters, kettles etc. and we really don’t need two of everything, so we’re thinking of asking people to consider giving a financial gift if they were in the first place, considering giving one.

Do you think this is a rude thing to do? If not, what do you consider we do to get our request through in the politest way possible?

From the void

2009-04-27T07:55:00.000-07:00

This past week I received an email which I thought I'd share with you guys... For obvious reasons I've removed any personal information that she shared within the message.

Below is the email:

Hi there

Well the time has dawned that I have run out of my own pearls of wisdom and require some guidance from a respected source. So technically I am asking this of you, not as my friend, but on a professional basis so to speak.
(Alternatively a good kick up the arse would also be appreciated)

So the reality of the situation is as follows... over the last 6 mths I've tried to indulge in the boys that have been throwing themselves at me (LOL as they do of course). But nothing seems to be working.

The problem in a nutshell is that I just don't feel anything - there is no spark, no emotional attachment. The thing that I do feel is that there is a void and lack of emotion. Clearly guilt is not far behind as these guys really do like me and would like to have a meaningful interaction or relationship but I just don't 'feel' it. And trust me it isn't for lack of trying... I try and spend as much time in their company, even indulge in some fun activites and yes physical contact....but I just don't feel anything emotional.

So this is my dilemma - do I settle and hope that at some point in being with someone the emotion will come back, or do I continue to try everyone on, searching for someone who will actually somehow get an emotional reaction out of me?

Please don't give me the age old time will heal all pains speech or the everything happens for a reason blah blah because frankly it provides no sense of comfort or reassurance. (And yes I have stopped the daily crying over ***** and really feel that I have moved on, all's forgiven and I have accepted my fate but for some reason that hasn't lifted this feeling of being a void!)

I'm sorry to be requesting this from you but hey at least its not asking you to come up with world peace! Perhaps your blog crowd would be able to come up with some interesting opninions/suggestions. "When you have loved & lost the One, do you settle for someone who thinks you are the One or do you keep searching till you find another One" ???

From the void
*****

If you have any questions answered by her, I will mail her and post her response, unless she requests that I don't post it.

I have my own ideas and opinions as to what I think she could consider doing but she also wants to know what you guys think... so, what do you think?

Humorous 2009 Election Adverts

2009-04-21T02:15:00.000-07:00

Court approves marriage of girl, 8

2009-04-20T00:31:00.000-07:00

Court approves marriage of girl, 8
April 20, 2009 Edition 2

RIYADH: Saudi Arabia was looking into introducing a minimum age for marriage, a justice ministry official was quoted as saying, after a court upheld the marriage of an eight-year-old girl to a man 50 years her senior.

Al-Madina newspaper yesterday quoted Mohamed al-Babtain, the director of marriage officials at the justice ministry, as saying the ministry had started "looking into the legal age of marriage". He did not elaborate.

Saudi Arabia has no legal age limit for marriage. Justice ministry officials were not available for comment.

The newspaper also quoted prominent cleric Sheikh Mohsen al-Obaikan as saying that girls below the age of 18 should not be allowed to marry.
Obaikan called for a ban on "marrying off little girls below the age of 18 to avoid these blights".

A court in the town of Unaiza upheld for the second time last week the marriage of the girl to a man who is about 50 years her senior, on condition he does not have sex with her until she reaches puberty. - Reuters

Have you heard of any similar stories? What should we do to prevent this kind of thing from happening in our country?

Article taken from here.

Zuma willing to reconsider abortion laws

2009-04-17T00:05:00.000-07:00

Haven’t quite yet made up your mind who you should vote for yet? Perhaps this can assist you...

Zuma willing to reconsider abortion laws
April 17, 2009 Edition 1

PRETORIA: Christians have been invited to raise objections to abortion laws and same-sex marriages with a Jacob Zuma presidency.
"JZ was not president when these things were happening ... there are no holy cows," ANC national executive member Mathole Motshekga told a debate at the University of Pretoria yesterday. "Anything one had problems with could be raised," he told the meeting, which was considering why Christians should vote for a particular political party.

The debate, which was attended by the ANC, the DA, Cope and the African Christian Democratic Party, also heard criticism of Zuma for a claim that God was on the ANC's side.

The DA's Willem Doman said the claim indicated a "move in the direction of a dictatorship". - Sapa

Have you hear any other ridiculous comments and statements by various political parties through their campaigning? (Story taken from here)

Boys and their toys...

2009-04-15T05:09:00.001-07:00

We went car shopping yesterday… I’ve never before felt so intimidated! The sales persons were all over me like I was a fresh piece of meat for them to devour!!! I think, no I know, that they knew it was my first time at buying a car through a dealer.

Yesterday we looked at the Hyundai Getz and the i10 as well as the Ford Fiesta. All 3 are appealing to us and fit the budget fairly well. Do you guys have any experience with these cars or know stories about them?

Like I said, I’ve never bought a car from a dealer before so I’m not really sure what sorts of things to be on the lookout for as well as what sort of things I should ask. What do you suggest?

We’re also a bit confused and I’m hoping you guys could assist me in answering this question: Financially speaking, is it cheaper to buy a new car than a second hand car?

Got any suggestions you can share with Megs and I?

Divorce will be a clean break for her

2009-04-03T01:58:00.000-07:00

The more Megs and I discuss marriage and the rest of our lives, the more we learn about each other. We've especially learned a lot about each others habits, what we like don't like etc. I don't think we'll ever reach a point like the woman in this article where we will end our marriage! In fact, we don't plan on ever ending our marriage!!!

BERLIN: A German woman has divorced her husband because she was fed up with him cleaning all the time.

German media reported that the wife got through 15 years of marriage putting up with the man's penchant for doing household chores, tidying up and rearranging the furniture.

But she ran out of patience when he knocked down and rebuilt a wall at their home when it got dirty, Christian Kropp, court judge in the central town of Sondershausen, said yesterday.

"I'd never had anyone seek a divorce for this," he said. - Reuters

Article taken from here.

No U2 on the horizon as fans rattled by hoax

2009-04-02T11:38:00.000-07:00

I'm glad I wasn't anywhere near this town cause I would've fallen for this April fools hoax as well!!!

No U2 on the horizon as fans rattled by hoax
Ralph Riegel

Hundreds of U2 fans were duped yesterday in an elaborate April Fool's Day prank when they rushed to a shopping centre believing the band was playing a surprise rooftop concert.

The prank -- organised by Cork radio station RedFM -- fooled listeners, with early morning details of the impromptu concert and live news bulletins during which U2 were clearly heard playing in the background.

The station also carried audio clips of "U2" playing a rooftop concert at Blackpool Shopping Centre. But, in reality, it was the tribute band U2opia.

Gesture

The station claimed the real band wanted to make a gesture to Cork, as they are not playing a gig there this summer, and that they had decided to recreate their famous concert from the rooftop of a Los Angeles liquor store in the late 1980s.

That concert has gone down in rock 'n' roll legend, but this one will only go down in Red FM legend.

On first hearing of the U2 gig yesterday, fans rushed to the shopping centre from all over Cork city and county, with reports of some people running out of work to catch the impromptu gig and others abandoning their shopping to get to Blackpool.

By mid-morning, almost 500 people had gathered around the shopping centre to try and catch a glimpse of their rock heroes. The gardai and Cork fire brigade, who had been alerted in advance to the hoax, played along, and it was later broadcast that the concert was being shut down on health and safety grounds.

But hundreds of fans continued to mill around outside the shopping centre as a large crane hoist was used to bring security personnel to the roof, lending credence to the suggestion that Bono, The Edge, Larry and Adam were being told to pull the plug and get off the roof.

Fans admitted they were totally taken in by the prank, and one woman said she had driven 30 miles just to try to get to see U2.

Red FM and Blackpool Shopping Centre said they were taken aback by the reaction, but added that those duped had taken it in good humour.

© Irish Independent, 2009. (Original Post here)

Were you fooled this year?

Taking a step back in time...

2009-03-31T00:43:00.000-07:00

My last couple of blogs have been rather serious and I think it’s time to cool down a bit… and just in time if you ask me! I need some help as I am trying to put together a list of the top 80’s songs. Reason being as I want to host a 80’s party later on in the year… and if I want to do that, I obviously need the good ol’ classics that take us back to the 80’s.

What I need from you guys is your favorite 80’s classic(s). Think of those tunes that immediately get your feet tapping, your arms waving and your heart singing at full volume!!!

For example, one of my all time classic is Billy Ocean’s “When the going gets tough, the tough gets going!”

Of course there are many more that get me on the dance floor and I’m sure in your case as well!

So, what are the ultimate 80’s classics that get you going?

Oh no not another evangelical christian… Part Four

2009-03-30T09:57:00.000-07:00

Thought Nine:

“You define 0.01% as a "high success rate" when it comes to answered prayers. You consider that to be evidence that prayer works. And you think that the remaining 99.99% FAILURE was simply the will of God.”

This one I can’t help but agree with as I often find evangelical Christians telling others that God didn’t answer your prayer because it’s not his will. I understand that it may not be his will and that he may have said no, but it really irritates me when someone tells an individual that God didn’t heal their loved one cause it isn’t his will.

Ok, I know I missed a bit what he was saying… I often question as to whether God does actually hear my prayers or not. Lately however I’ve decided to relook at the way I view and understand prayer and I believe that I was given a rather warped view in the churches that I have attended. Perhaps it’s not their fault, perhaps it is, that’s not the point I’m trying to get across. What I am trying to say is that I believe there is a lot of theology based on prayer that a large number of churches for some odd reason are not sharing.

Do you ever struggle to believe in prayer?

Thought Ten:

“You actually know a lot less than many atheists and agnostics do about the Bible, Christianity, and church history - but still call yourself a Christian.”

This is a statement that I agree with whole heartedly. The majority of Christians I know don’t read the Bible. You show me one Christian who reads his/her Bible and I’ll show you ten who don’t. I often have more intellectual conversations about my faith with non-believers than I do with so-called Christians. If you’re a Christian shouldn’t you at least know a bit about your faith?

How often do you read your Bible?

This has been a great series of blogs and I wanted to thank each and every one of you who participated whether it be through the comments or alternatively emails. I’m sure we’ve all learned something special…

Oh no not another evangelical christian… Part Three

2009-03-26T05:47:00.000-07:00

Thought 6:

“You are willing to spend your life looking for little loopholes in the scientifically established age of Earth (few billion years), but you find nothing wrong with believing dates recorded by Bronze Age tribesmen sitting in their tents and guessing that Earth is a few generations old.”

While this is not something I personal do, I know many individuals in the academic world who do. Does it really matter when, where and how the world was made? Don’t we have more important things to deal with? Eg. Extreme Poverty, Homeless People?

In my reading of Jesus’ life, I never saw him arguing over whether the earth was thousands or billions of years old. Rather I read of a Jesus who was interested (and still is) in today, the now.

Do you think this is a necessary argument?

Thought 7:

“You believe that the entire population of this planet with the exception of those who share your beliefs -- though excluding those in all rival sects - will spend Eternity in an infinite Hell of Suffering. And yet consider your religion the most "tolerant" and ‘loving.’”

Aaah… I think this has got to be the most controversial topic surrounding Evangelical Christianity. Is hell a real physical place, Yes? No? Well, depending on answer (I believe) your views and opinions would vary on this one. Hell will always be ‘hot’ topic of discussion.

What I would suggest here is that we (the evangelical Christians) seriously think about how we go about sharing our faith. Are the people around you aware of the fact that you’re a believer because you told them or are they aware of it because of your actions?

How do you share your faith with others?

Thought 8:

“While modern science, history, geology, biology, and physics have failed to convince you otherwise, some idiot rolling around on the floor speaking in "tongues" may be all the evidence you need to "prove" Christianity.”

I’m bound to get emails because of this one!

Tongue’s has always been a sensitive area of theology for me personally. I have often been told that I need to revisit my understanding of this gift as the view I hold is the incorrect view.

I don’t think speaking in tongues proves anything to a nonbeliever. If it does prove anything to them, it may be that you’re an idiot rolling around on the floor. No one who is visiting a church for the first time wants to see that kind of thing.

I took a friend of mine to home cell/life group meeting where she was looked down upon because she did not speak in tongues. She was really offended and honestly, I can’t blame her for feeling that way… Can you?

Do you think speaking in tongues is the best way to ‘prove’ Christianity?

Oh no not another evangelical christian… Part Two

2009-03-24T09:56:00.000-07:00

Fourth Thought:

“Your face turns purple when you hear of the "atrocities" attributed to Allah, but you don't even flinch when hearing about how God/Yahweh slaughtered all the babies of Egypt in "Exodus" and ordered the elimination of entire ethnic groups in "Joshua" including women, children, and trees!”

This one I think boils down to either two things. The first being that many Christians don’t even read the Bible and so aren’t even aware of these sort of stories and the second being I believe, a misunderstanding of the scriptures. I myself am one of those ‘evangelical’ Christians who are against atrocities attrituted to Allah. Many of those who make use of this argument forget to take the ‘time period’ into consideration.

Large killings were common in ancient times… large killings are not common in today’s times. Do I need to point it out any further?
Do you agree with this fourth thought?

Fifth thought:

“You laugh at Hindu beliefs that deify humans, and Greek claims about gods sleeping with women, but you have no problem believing that the Holy Spirit impregnated Mary, who then gave birth to a man-god who got killed, came back to life and then ascended into the sky.”

This is what makes Christianity so unique and different from other faiths. Again there is nothing else I can suggest here but to respect and love others of different religions. We may think that their faith stories are strange and unusual, but just how unusual is our story to them? It took me many years before I finally accepted the fact that Christ was born of a virgin and that he died and rose after 3 days. I now believe whole heartedly that Jesus is the only way to the Father (Just to clear that up before I start getting more of those threatening emails!).

Were you easily convinced regarding the virgin birth?

Oh no, not another evangelical christian… Part One

2009-03-23T06:03:00.000-07:00

I recently read a blog post titled “10 Things I hate about you… er sorry… Evangelical Christianity,” which really got me thinking… In this post, there were some rather challenging thoughts. Although I don’t necessarily agree with them all, there are a few points which sadly explain the status of Evangelical Christianity today. One only has to read a few books such as to “They like Jesus but not the Church” by Dan Kimball or “UnChristian” by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons to gain a small glimpse of how the evangelical church has sadly marred her own identity.

What I thought I’d do through 3-4 posts, is work my way through this blog and share my thoughts and in return hear yours. I know that some of you are quite conservative in your thinking and so I’d love to hear your thoughts as to why you disagree with some of this authors thoughts.

Here is the first thought:

“You vigorously deny the existence of thousands of gods claimed by other religions, but feel outraged when someone denies the existence of yours.”

This I would argue is so common, we don’t even see it, perhaps because we’re the ones doing the arguing. I say we as I see a bit of evangelical Christianity in my own spirituality although I don’t really enjoy labeling myself. That’s another discussion tho!

Why is it that we expect people to listen to our arguments as to why the/our Christian God exists and yet we don’t have the energy, time, patience, or whatever it is listen and hear out their story. Perhaps they to have thought through their religion and they believe theirs makes more sense than what ours does.

Here is the second thought:

“You feel insulted and "dehumanized" when scientists say that people evolved from other life forms, but you have no problem with the Biblical claim that we were created from dirt.”

This one caught me off guard a bit as I’ve never really thought of the creation of humanity in this sense. I certainly have been criticized many times with regards to my understandings of and views on the doctrine of humanity, as I go against what most ‘reformed’ and perhaps ‘liberal’ scholars would believe. I’m open to chatting about this at some point. A future post? Maybe…

What is it about evolution that gets under your skin?

Here is the third thought:

“You laugh at polytheists, but you have no problem believing in a Triune God.”

Why is it that we think people are (to put it nicely) silly when they worship cows, elephants etc? A very valid point I believe, is raised here. We insult and laugh at someone worshiping something they in most cases can see, understand and touch when the God we serve is a God who is 3 persons in 1. A God who is/was in one place yet was all over at the same time. A God who is all powerful yet died a sickening death on a cross. There are many things about our God which doesn’t make sense at all… have you thought about the God you worship against the God they worship?

These really are just quick random thoughts off the top of my head in response to what I read. I’ve also tried to share and provoke your thinking based on my personal experiences with those in other religions. Should we not sit and think through this before start trying to convince others that we have the answer?

Do you have any thoughts on these three thoughts?

It came from within!

2009-03-18T05:27:00.000-07:00

I recently began reading, “It came from within!” by Andy Stanley. Great book so far… The first chapter really got me thinking and so I thought I would share some of those with you.

Ultimately if I were to sum up the chapter into one sentence or rather question, it would be this: “How is your heart doing?” or “What is the condition of your heart?”

The reason why this is such an important question and should be an important question is based on Ezekiel 36:26 - “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.”

This is a rather interesting statement. What makes it even more interesting as Andy points out; it was stated after the people were given the 10 commandments. “Clearly it wasn’t enough for them to know what to do; they needed to change from the inside out in order to follow through” (26).

So, what does this mean to you and I?

It means that just as we have to, they to had to “drop the public persona and become one whole and healthy person.”

So many of us who have accepted Christ have opened the front door of our hearts to him welcoming him into our lives, yet we’ve never allowed him access into certain areas of our hearts. That in simple English is why our relationships take strain…

Just how much access does he have in your heart? Are you living the lives of 2 people as I often have?
I often find myself saying, “I can’t believe I just said that.” Truth is it shouldn’t be such a shock to me as it reveals the condition of my heart…

So on that note I ask, how is your heart? Is your heart able to keep up with your outward obedience?

Another one bites the dust…

2009-03-16T05:12:00.000-07:00

Last night William (my future father in law) and I spent a portion of the evening ooohing and aaaahing whilst watching the Queen Live at Wembley. If you haven’t seen this DVD it’s well worth adding to your collection. Hence why I have it… Queen really had a stage presence which stood out above the others.

Brain May… a true legend. The man is a machine behind 6 strings. Is there anything he can’t do? Roger Taylor is also someone who takes playing a drum kit to a whole new level. Freddie Mercury, Brian May, Roger Taylor and John Deacon are 4 men that will be known and respected with regards to the music industry for many years to come.

However, as many of you know, I am a HUGE U2 fan. I just got the new album and I’m absolutely loving it. Get yourself a copy today… Ok, enough U2 promo’s…

What I wanted to know from you is this: “If Freddie Mercury were still alive and Queen were therefore still performing, who would be the bigger rock band today, U2 or Queen?”

At the moment, William’s all for Queen and I’m (obviously) all for U2…

Who do you think would be the most well known rock band between Queen and U2?

Men's Consideration for Women

2009-03-13T03:09:00.000-07:00

After receiving many comments and mails yesterday based on “We’re on a role,” I thought I’d share one email which I found extremely humorous.

I don’t think I’ll take the advice given in the article, but it definitely made me laugh!

Thanks Patsy for forwarding this to me.

Enjoy…

Men's Consideration for Women

It is important for men to remember that, as women grow older, it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as when they were younger.

When you notice this, try not to yell at them. Some are oversensitive, and there's nothing worse than an oversensitive woman.

My name is Jeff. Let me relate how I handled the situation with my wife, Susie.

Since I retired several years ago, it has become necessary for Susie to get a full-time job along with her part-time job, both for extra income and for the health insurance benefits that we needed.

Shortly after she started working, I noticed she was beginning to show her age. I usually get home from the golf club about the same time she gets home from work.

Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts dinner. I don't yell at her.

Instead, I tell her to take her time and just wake me when she gets dinner on the table. I generally have lunch in the Men's Grill at the club, so eating out is costly and not reasonable, and I'm ready for some home-cooked grub when I hit that door.

She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But now it's not unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after dinner. I do what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each evening that they won't clean themselves. I know she really appreciates this, as it does seem to motivate her to get them done before she goes to bed.

Another symptom of aging is complaining. For example she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour.

But, boys, we take 'em for better or worse, so I just smile and offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days. That way she won't have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldn't hurt her any (if you know what I mean). I like to think that tact is one of my strong points.

When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the lawn. I try not to make a scene. I'm a fair man. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a while. And, as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me too.

I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Susie. I'm not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible! Nobody knows better than I do how frustrated women get, as they get older.

However, guys, even if you just use a little more tact and less criticism of your aging wife because of this article, I will consider that writing this was well worthwhile.

After all, we are put on this earth to help each other.

Sincerely,

Jeff

EDITOR'S NOTE

Jeff died suddenly on March 1 of a perforated rectum. The police report says he was found with a Calloway extra long 50-inch Big Bertha Driver II golf club jammed up his rear end, with barely 5 inches of grip showing and a sledge hammer laying nearby.His wife Susie was arrested and charged with murder. The all-woman jury took only 15 minutes to find her Not Guilty, accepting her defence that Jeff somehow, without looking, accidentally sat down on his golf club.

We're on a role...

2009-03-12T00:55:00.000-07:00

Last night Megs and I had our third meeting with Mike and Holly, the couple who are helping us get ready for marriage. It was a really interesting night as there were one or two moments when Megs and I glanced at each other as if to say, “Huh, you gotta be kidding me!” It was good fun…

The reason why we had those moments was because we spent the evening discussing roles. It was interesting to hear what Megs expects of me as the spiritual leader of the house as well as the leader of the family. In a nut shell, we pretty much meet eye to eye from where we see each other fulfilling our various roles.

So over the course of next week, I’ve decided to ponder over the questions, “What is the role of the man in a marriage?” as well as, “What is the role of the woman in a marriage?”

If you’re married, how have you handled the topic and execution of roles in your marriage?

I'm gonna be a famous blogger!!!

2009-03-11T03:06:00.000-07:00

Like many of my friends, I to want be a world famous blogger... I just didn't know how I'd get there...

BUT NOW... Thanks to my now good friend, Dave Walker, I'm gonna be famous!!!

I now know how to become a famous blogger...

Cartoon by Dave Walker. Find more cartoons you can freely re-use on your blog at We Blog Cartoons.

Are you aware of any other funny cartoons?

Life. Money. Hope.

2009-03-09T04:12:00.000-07:00

Trying to make sense of the economy?

All across the world we are feeling the effects of the downturn in the economy. Which means all of us will be needing to watch our finances more, maybe even more than we are used to.

That is why the next series coming from LifeChurch.tv is so amazing. Starting this week leading financial expert Dave Ramsey joins us to share timeless advice on the money matters right under your own roof.

Come try Church Online and join us as we learn how to take control of our financial future and launch a personal economic revolution during this upcoming series.

How are you doing with regards to your finances?

Changing the world one experience at a time!

2009-03-06T10:56:00.000-08:00

The Internet is absolutely amazing. In many ways it has helped each and everyone us and in many ways it has also caused serious harm to us. I’m not sure of the exact statistics, but I do know that more than half of all google searches in one day are of a sexual nature.

But I’m not blogging about porn today. Today I wanted to share with you what a difference having church online can make. Many have argued with me stating their many reasons (some really good and some really pathetic) as to why I should give up on the ‘internet Church.’

Despite these many conversations, I still firmly believe and always will believe that the online church can make such an impact in the lives of so many… an impact beyond our imaginations. I get to speak to more people online on a daily basis then I do face to face… I get to reach people I would never reach had it not been for the internet…

In the video below taken from SWERVE, Craig Groeschel, the senior pastor of LifeChurch.tv shares a list of all the countries which had representatives during the course of the past weekend. This is just one of the many reasons why I volunteer at LifeChurch.tv. Perhaps you should try.

There are plenty of experiences which one can participate in. Check out or times here or drop me an email and I’ll put you in touch with the right people!

Have you ever experienced church online? What are your thoughts about church online?

Countries Online from LifeChurch.tv on Vimeo.

Dinner for two…

2009-03-04T23:59:00.000-08:00

Megs and I attended our second meeting last night with a couple (who we really respect) who are assisting us with marriage preparation. So far it’s been great fun and we’ve both been stretched in our thinking about marriage.

Last night we had a discussion about finances… this is the one area where I’ve struggled to keep my wallet closed. I love giving as well as looking after myself. If I see something and I like it, I buy it…

One of the things which we’ve both decided to do is keep all our slips for the month of March. This way we’ll be able to see where and when we spent the biggest portions of our income. Must admit, I am a bit nervous to see how much I spend on junk food!!! Don’t laugh; I’m sure you’d be too!!!

One of our questions that we asked was, “How do we budget for food when we’ve never had to budget for two people?”

Their suggestion was that we go to a shopping mall and do a dummy shopping trip. We go and price everything based on meals that we’d like to eat for one week.

Another suggestion which was given to us as well, which we’re going to try is asking our parents to keep all their shopping receipts. We will then take these receipts and work from them, of course remembering that they’re buying for more than 2.

This is definitely going to be an interesting task!

Have you ever tried to work out where your money goes? Have you got any advice for us as a young couple regarding our finances? Should or shouldn’t we draw up a budget?

You win some and you lose some!

2009-02-26T09:32:00.000-08:00

I think the biggest lesson I learned from Ashley and Candice’s wedding is the fact that there will be a point in the day where you’ll be disappointed. What you make of that disappointment is completely up to you.

Ashley had a really nice white suit on which of course stood out from myself and the rest of the grooms men. As tradition goes, we were all driven to the church in a pretty sweet BMW. Ash’s uncle was really proud of the opportunity he had to drive us; that he went all out in cleaning his car. So much so that even the seats received a polish… but that’s what caused the problem…

Although his uncle meant well, the polish came off and Ashley’s white suit became a black and white suit. The boys heart sank… What was I to do as a best man?

In a nutshell, we just lived with it and we went through the ceremony…

So, I learned that no matter how hard you plan and try, something will go wrong and the real challenge is actually how you go about handling it! I really need to give a shout out to Ash for the way he just lived with it, despite the fact that he did panic a bit… Ash my man, kudo’s to you!!!

Have you ever seen something go wrong at/during a wedding?

The Best Man

2009-02-24T02:38:00.000-08:00

One of the first things I learned from my sister and brother inlaw's wedding was how to prepare a best man speech. I thought it would be more daunting a task then it actually proved to be.

I have done training in public speaking and am reasonably comfortable in front of a crowd, however because I had never before done a BM speech I was absolutely scared out of my pants! Despite my shakey knees, sweaty palms and quivering voice, I had so much fun sharing this speech which I made up from jokes I found on the net... The internet really can help you if you just know where to look :) Below you can read my speech which took me roughly 3-4 hours to prepare.

So, the biggest lesson I learned from doing my best man speech is this: HAVE FUN!!!

Have you ever had to do a speech at a wedding? How did it go?

Ashley and Candice’s Wedding – 21 February 2009

Thank you Nathan, for that generous introduction – wonderfully restrained, I thought.

Good evening Ladies and Gentlemen – before I start, the manger of this venue has asked me to request that, for reasons concerning the health and safety of all, none of you get up on top of your tables and chairs during my standing ovation.

What can you say about a man who came from humble beginnings and is now quickly rising to the very top of his profession based solely on intelligence, grit and the willpower to push on where others might fail? A man who is beginning to distinguish himself amongst his peers and where none can say a bad word against him? Well that's enough about me, I'm here to talk about Ashley.

I must admit to being rather nervous about today's speech as it’s a family occasion. The last thing I want to do is cause offence by sharing too much detail about Ashley’s very colorful past. I therefore decided to edit out anything that might upset anyone present. So thank you very much, ladies and gentlemen, and goodnight.

I feel incredibly honored to be the brother of Candice and the best man to Ashley. Thank you for this prestigious task.

I’m sure you can agree with me in stating that the bridesmaids and flower girls look absolutely beautiful today. Only to be outshone by our blushing bride, my sister, Candice. I'm sure you'll agree with me gentlemen, today is a sad day for single men, as another beauty leaves the available list. Ladies, I'm sure you'll agree that today's passing by without much of a ripple.

I’d also like to thank my parents, as well as Ashley’s parents for a wonderful set out and organized day. Not forgetting everyone who has worked tirelessly behind the scenes. And finally, thank you all for attending and joining us in celebrating this wonderful occasion. You all have in some way or another played a role in making this day the happiest day of both Ashley and Candice’s lives.

The happiest day of their lives – Being a philosopher, that phrase got me thinking. Many people say that your wedding day is the happiest day of your life. So, if that's the case and it certainly seems to be, I'd like to ask the husbands amongst us tonight, does that mean its all downhill from here?

Ashley became part of our lives back in I believe around 1998. What a man… I can honestly say that in all the years I've known him, no one has ever questioned his intelligence. In fact, I've never heard anyone even mention it.

I remember arriving home from school absolutely famished and ready to munch down anything I could find only to find out that Ashley had got to the kitchen before me and cleared us out. I thought we’d been robbed. I’ve never known anyone to eat as much 2 minute noodles as this man did.

Let me give you all some worthy advice, if Ashley comes round for a visit; lock your fridge and cupboard doors! Seriously! I learned the hard way.

Besides his fascination for noodles he also had an interest in acting. Thing is, I think he suffered a bit from stage fright. Ashley is the only individual I know of who could drink and act in a school play at the same time. In fact, he is the only person I know of that could finish a bottle of vodka on his own during the show whilst backstage and still get through it still standing.

What I don’t understand Ashley is how you could get through a 2 hour show without anyone noticing but not know how to open a gate? Instead of opening the gate to leave the school premises, Ashley decided to rather go over it… head first.

I came a across an interview in which an old man was asked how he felt about his marriage. He replied by stating that he felt absolutely terrible. When asked why he asked the interviewer, “Do you remember those words till death do you part?” The interviewer replied, “Yes I do.” The old man then replied, “Well I reached the point where I found out that when I said those words I wasn’t making a promise, I was setting a goal.”

Despite this, I have to give it to you Ashley. You’re a man who keeps his word and I know that you love Candice with you whole heart and soul. I wish you and your beautiful wife all the best in the many years that lie ahead of you.Ladies and gentlemen, would you join me please by charging your glasses and raising them as I share a short poem written by William Shakespeare to the newly-weds.

Here's to the bride - may she share everything with her husband...and that includes the housework.

Here's to the groom, a man who kept his head even while he lost his heart.

Here's to the new husband, and here's to the new wife,

may they remain lovers, for all of life.

Let your love endure beyond the last sunset.

May thy life be long and happy,

Thy cares and sorrows few;

And the many friends around thee Prove faithful, fond and true.

May your voyage through life be as happy and as free

As the dancing waves on the deep blue sea

May your love be added,

may it never be subtracted,

may your household multiply, and may your hearts never be divided!!

Ashley take Candice's hand and place your hand over hers. Now, remember this moment and cherish it... because this will be the last time you'll ever have the upper hand!"

Cheers.

The Beautiful Bride

2009-02-23T11:55:00.001-08:00

This past Saturday I was lucky enough to be the best man to my sister’s now husband, Ashley. The wedding was absolutely beautiful and my sister did a great job in organizing everything. I was really proud of her for that very reason. However what really stood out for me was her absolute beauty.

I have never seen a more beautiful bride and probably won’t see a more beautiful bride up and until my wedding. She blew me away as she walked down the aisle and it seemed only natural that Ashley shed a tear as she walked up to him.

She was stunning…

With my wedding just around the corner I thought I’d share through the course of this week what I learned from being involved in my sisters wedding…

For today, I’m just going to share 3 photo’s taken by Michelle Fish, a good mate of mine…

Can you remember ever seeing a bride that just blew you away?

Mixing Politics and Religion

2009-02-20T12:35:00.000-08:00

With the South African National Presidential Election around the corner, I think we (South Africans) should focus on Jesus and politics. We need to understand this so that we may all vote wisely in a way that our country may bring glory to our Lord and Saviour...

With that said, Ashley, a good friend of mine is getting the ball rolling with this series.

Are you ready for a life changing election?

My to get list

2009-02-19T10:31:00.000-08:00

Recently I started on my (can I say) trip to find the many items Megs and I would need to start a home. These items would be things such as a fridge, stove, couches etc. What I wasn’t prepared for was the prices!!! WoW!!!

Some of these everyday things are really expensive…One thing which really blew me away was the prices of beds… they sure don’t make them cheap now days!

Whilst browsing around the web for some cheap shops, I came across this bed and I thought I’d share it with you… Maybe I should consider getting one of these… :)

What do you guys recommend we place at the top of list of things to get?

The Church unites in action to reach our world

2009-02-18T03:53:00.000-08:00

A SHORT MESSAGE TO ALL PASTORS AND CHURCH LEADERS

We pray to Jesus asking Him to answer our prayers—what if we became the answer to His? In John 17:20-24, He prayed that we would be one, and One Prayer is an opportunity to see what can be accomplished when the Church works together.

20 “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, 21 that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one:

23 I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me. 24 “Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, and to see my glory, the glory you have given me because you loved me before the creation of the world.

In June 2008, God worked in amazing ways as more than two million believers stood together to pray, fast, learn, and love others. This year, we'll be joining forces once again for an extraordinary worldwide experience: One Prayer 2009. Beginning the first weekend in June, we'll come together for four weeks as we learn more about our Creator and go out into the world to share, serve and give.

We'll partner around the globe and explore the theme "God is …”

We're looking forward to hearing what the gifted communicators participating in One Prayer have to say about this topic through messages like, "God is Powerful," "God is a Fortress," "God is My Provider," and "God is Love."We are all running a church, what if we joined together and became the Church? Here are 2 questions for you to ponder over – “How big can you grow a church?" and “How big can God grow The Church?”

All sermons from all international speakers from the churches who choose to be involved will be available online for you to view and to use should you choose to.

There is no need for you to use these sermons if you feel uncomfortable with the speakers and their teaching. You can teach your message in relation to the theme, “God is” allowing you to stick too your churches doctrines.

The One Prayer series will provide opportunities for us all to join as one as we participate within our local community. We need ideas! Please share if you have any. Examples: Special offering towards Living Hope, painting and general maintenance of a school.

Life Church.tv will provide all promotional material for the series at no cost. Promotional material includes posters, pamphlets, video clips etc.

The series begins on June the 6-7 and can continue for as long as you choose it to. Most churches focus on 4 weeks where others have chosen to focus on either 6 or 8 weeks. The choice is yours!

Imagine what your home town will think as well as how they will respond when they see all the churches united as one for the month of June! Imagine the press coverage the Church would get through our city?

http://2009.oneprayer.com/

Shocking sex lives of Cape Town's teens

2009-02-17T00:16:00.000-08:00

This article was originally published on page 1 of The Cape Times on February 17, 2009.

Shocking sex lives of Cape Town's teens

Teenagers who abstain from sex are "losers", HIV and Aids are "myths" and it is normal for girls to exchange sexual favours for material gain.

Those are just some of the disheartening beliefs that have emerged from a major UCT study of teenagers in Cape Town, which shows the enormous amount of peer pressure youngsters are under to party, forego educational opportunities and even tolerate violence if they stand to gain goods such as cellphones and clothing.

But conversely, youngsters are also making a greater effort to nurture relationships in their homes, and are more racially tolerant than ever before.

One of the study leaders, Rachel Bray, has called on skilled South Africans to share their knowledge about the education system with less-privileged adolescents, to help shift the widespread under-achievement the researchers investigate in the 350-page document.

Huge peer pressure to have sex, party and drop out of school; their parents' ignorance about education and, in one community, their elders' contempt for their abilities, were some of the obstacles causing large numbers of teenagers to fail.

The study, "Growing up in the New South Africa: Childhood and Adolescence in Post-Apartheid South Africa", examines children's lives at home, in the neighbourhood, among friends and at school. It describes the Cape Area Panel Study (CAPS) which followed the lives of 5 000 Capetonians aged 14 to 22, for four years until 2006. Those interviewed were a representative sample of communities across the city.

The researchers also took an in-depth look, over 16 months, at the lives of hundreds of children and adolescents in the largely white suburb of Fish Hoek, the coloured area Ocean View and the black township of Masiphumelele.

These settlements are close to one another in the South Peninsula but share socio-economic traits with others across the city, so are representative in key ways.

The researchers found unexpected similarities in these communities. For example, both boys and girls in all three places faced huge peer pressure to experiment sexually, and many faced what the researchers called "a quiet violence" in sexual relationships.

In Ocean View and Masiphumelele the choice was stark: enjoy the "sex and partying", or knuckle down to schoolwork. Many teenagers found it impossible to follow a lonely "straight and narrow" path. Only a very few, those highly skilled at negotiating relationships, managed to have boy- or girlfriends and stay committed to schoolwork.

Many teenagers ignored the pressure: about half of all 18-year-olds had had sex, the CAPS study found. But the poorer the community, the younger the sexual debut. About 83% of black girls and boys had had sex by the age of 19.

Teenagers said the abstainers were the "losers". In all three communities, teenagers found it hard to find adults who would give them guidance on sex and discuss their problems. In all three communities unsafe sex was widespread. Teenagers felt HIV posed them no threat, as it was "invisible".

Girls in all three places also believed their boyfriends should buy them designer clothes, cellphones or other goods and that men should be the decision-makers in relationships. Many girls in Ocean View and Masiphumelele sought "sugar daddies".

"Most of the time, girls want money from a relationship. They say, 'I'd better go out with someone who's working'," said a 17-year-old from Masiphumelele.

Many of these girls submitted to their boyfriends, even when they became violent.

One of the researchers' main concerns was that few poor parents understood the education process, from the content of school subjects to how to apply for bursaries.

Bray suggested educated adults "befriend" those in need of mentoring and "become role-models".

"We, as adults, need to facilitate children in finding such relationships, because poverty and the problems in education are not going to be sorted out tomorrow," she said.

"Children respect adults who have skills and want to share them. Relationships are what sustain young people and the quality of them is key."

· Names in the study were changed to protect the participants' identity.

Were you aware of this sort of thing? What can and should we do to change this?

I had a leak...

2009-02-16T09:49:00.000-08:00

I was listening to a podcast by Tim Lucas of Liquid church a few days ago which really got me thinking… basically he shared a story about a how the bathroom wash basin started to leak every time he opened the tap.

Of course he thought to himself I gotta get that fixed… as do we when we something leaking in our homes, cars etc. However, as time went on he found himself getting more and more used to the leak. In other words he became accustomed to the leak. He learned to live with it. He settled for second best… until the leak got so bad and messed everything up in the bathroom when the pipes burst.

His pipe didn’t burst, cause he fixed it in the end (I think). But that got me thinking…

There are so many leaks in my own spiritual life. For example, there have been many occasions where I have said to myself that I’m too tired to spend some time reading the Bible. One day didn’t seem much to me and so it slowly became a habit. Eventually one became two and two became three etc.

It didn’t phase me as I slowly became accustomed to the leak and just taught myself to live with it. I kept telling myself that I’m human and I get tired and I can’t always meet the requirements of commited Bible reading…. I learned to live with the leak.

Recently however, I decided to fix the leak and move forward… now instead of 2/3’s of the water flow, I’m getting all of it and it’s tasting good!

Have you got a leak which you need to sort out? Have you become accustomed to a leak?

Who would sponsor Jesus - Levis or Quicksilver?

2009-02-13T05:20:00.000-08:00

Ashley, a mate of mine, along with another friend of his, produced this poster to promote a up and coming series at their local church.

It really got me thinking... If Jesus were here today, what would he buy? Would he even need to buy anything? Maybe he'd be sponsored by levis... Quicksilver sponsership?

The reason I raised this is cause the poster did what I think Ash wanted it to do, it made me think about what I'm spending my money on...

I don't like answering the question as to what Jesus would buy cause it seems to be drastically different to mine...

Think I need to reshape a couple of things with my finances...
Have you ever been challenged by a poster? Can you share it with myself and the readers?

Follow Me...

2009-02-11T01:06:00.000-08:00

I have just recently started a new job. After studying Theology (and still doing so) many have asked why it is that I went the way I did.

Honestly I went the way I did for 2 reasons. The first seems to be more accepted than the second but I’ll share them with you.

The first reason was the income. Compared to all the ‘theological’ careers I could have taken, my current job was the only one that would support me and my up and coming wedding.

Most people like that one…

The second causes issues for many Christians…

I took the job and turned down pastoral positions because I felt that it was the right thing to do. Many think that I should’ve taken the positions that were offered. I couldn’t, I just never felt ‘right’ about them.

To be honest, I never really accepted that reason whole heartedly either and so prayed and prayed and prayed about it… Did I mention I prayed about it? You get my point…

Last night I finally got my answer… It’s kinda weird how you can be reading something and then BOOM, the words just lift off the page and you KNOW that was meant for you.

This is what I read…

Psalm 32:8-9
8 The Lord says, "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you.9 Do not be like a senseless horse or mule that needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control."

So, finally… my heart is at peace and I know I’m doing the right thing!

Have you ever had a ‘smack in the face’ whilst reading the Bible?

Umpiring is a dangerous job!!!

2009-02-03T10:34:00.000-08:00

For the past couple of weeks I've been following the pro20 series. Very awesome... Although my term isn't doing that great, they do still stand a chance and I'm holding thumbs... lets hope that they go through and win the tournament!!!

After watching the adverts with the balls moaning about how they get abused, I thought I'd see if I could find some of the pics to share with you as they really do make one laugh. However, I came across the picture shown here which made me think... What is the most dangerous sport to referee?

Honeymoon Planning...

2009-02-02T10:05:00.000-08:00

I need your help... We're thinking of doing a 4 day cruise on board the Sinfonia. Check out the video and tell us what you think...

We're also wanting to know if you are aware of any other South African cruise company's.

Have you got any other suggestions for a honeymoon?

The Story of Strip Church

2009-01-29T12:59:00.000-08:00

The Story of Strip Church...

Are you willing to support them and the work they're doing? Check them out here.

Whackhead gets even!!!

2009-01-27T09:46:00.001-08:00

Don’t ever mock Whackhead… he will find you and he will get even… especially if you’re Australian!!!

Dad goes potty after baby blows whistle...

2009-01-23T07:41:00.000-08:00

Whilst browsing the paper earlier today I came across this story which made me chuckle. I had to share it with you guys as I thought you'd more than likely appreciate this one as well!

A baby playing with a telephone inadvertently called police to his house and to his "very surprised" father's marijuana-growing operation inside the dwelling, police said.

The Royal Canadian Mounted Police responded to an emergency 911 call in which the caller hung up without saying a word. Constable Janelle Canning said officers entered the White Rock residence, after knocks at the door went unanswered.

The mystery caller was identified after officers observed an 11-month old child playing with a cordless phone, pressing buttons randomly. "It appears the baby called us."

The 29-year-old father was arrested after a routine search of the house uncovered 500 marijuana plants in two locked rooms on the main floor.

The baby boy was removed and later released into his mother's custody.

Article taken from here.

For those of you who have kids, have your kids ever put you in a tight spot?

Video Blog 3 - The Sling Shot

2009-01-21T01:34:00.000-08:00

Why its great to be a guy...

2009-01-20T11:48:00.000-08:00

Carrying on with the guy theme, I thought I'd share a couple of reasons as to why I'm quite happy to be a guy...

1. Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.
2. A five day vacation requires only one suitcase.
3. You don't have to lug a bag of useful stuff around everywhere you go.
4. You can go to the bathroom with out a support group.
5. Your last name stays put.
6. The garage is all yours.
7. You can be showered and ready in 10 minutes.
8. Wedding plans take care of themselves.
9. Three pair of shoes are more than enough.
10. You can whip your shirt off on a hot day.
11. Car mechanics tell you the truth.
12. You don't give a rat's ass if someone notices your new haircut.
13. Gray hair and wrinkles add character.
14. Your pals can be trusted never to trap you with: "So...notice anything different?"
15. There is always a game on somewhere.

Got any other reasons why you think it's great to be a guy?

Taken from here.

If I were a girl...

2009-01-19T07:19:00.000-08:00

Let me first state this one is for the guys...

Have you ever been with your loved one and Beyonce's "If I were a Boy" song started playing on the radio? It's the kinda song that matter how good you've been to her, you kinda slip down and look the other way. You start feeling guilty for things you didn't even think of doing let alone actually do... She gets all quiet...

Beyonce (according to Megan, my fiance) has apparently stated that the song is not a man hater song. She's only referring to those boys who don't care about anyone else but themselves... Yeah right!!! Take a look at the first 2 verses:

If I were a boy
even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
and throw on what I wanted and go

Drink beer with the guy
and chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
and I'd never get confronted for it
cause they stick up for me
(Check out the full song here)

Well guys, Whackhead has had enough! He's fighting back!!! You go Whackhead!!! Listen to his new song, "If I were a girl" and hear the greatest come back ever...

Police nab burglar in 'first Facebook arrest'

2009-01-18T01:00:00.000-08:00

New Zealand police have arrested a burglar by using the popular social networking website Facebook to identify and track him down.

Calling it the "first Facebook arrest", Queenstown police in southern New Zealand posted security-camera footage and pictures showing the man's face as he tried to break into the safe of a local tavern on Monday.

"The offender was identified after a movie and images of him were displayed on Facebook. He was identified from members of the public viewing him on Facebook and also seeing him on TV after the Facebook images were displayed on the news," the police station said in a statement on its Facebook page.

Police said the unnamed, 21-year-old Queenstown native would appear in court on Wednesday.

Local media said the man got too hot while trying to break into the safe, took off his balaclava and revealed his face to a hidden security camera.

"He was a very silly young boy. The room is really small and it gets really hot in there at the best of times," the bar's assistant manager, Mel Kelly, was quoted as saying.

"Clearly, he didn't realise there was a video camera there until the last moment. He looks round and sees it and there's just a shocked look ... His face definitely drops."

Staff at the bar did not recognise the man, but Kelly suspected he was a former employee because of his knowledge of the property.

This is not the first time that Facebook, the world's largest online social network, has been used to track down criminals.

Taken from here.

Porn offered as a university course

2009-01-16T09:44:00.000-08:00

A university in Taiwan has opened a course to teach students how to appreciate and analyse porn movies.

The mass communication department of Providence University opened the course this semester, United Daily News reported.

To pass the course, students must give a 15-minute presentation in which they analyse an audience's psychological reaction to a porn clip from an academic perspective.

One worried student, who did not wish to be named, commented: "If I get a very good score in this course, I don't know how I'll explain it to my parents."

When registering for the voluntary course, students signed a paper agreeing that if the scenes were too explicit, they could choose to leave the classroom.

The teacher, assistant professor Chen Mingmei, said no students had ever left her class, but some would briefly cover their eyes during the stronger scenes. - Ananova.com

Taken from here.

My question here is, if they’re allowing viewing of pornography to become not only public but also a requirement, how long is it going to be until our school kids are also having to view it for biology reasons???

A Confused Best Man

2009-01-13T08:47:00.000-08:00

Time is running out for me and I need to make a plan… well, I don’t actually need to make a plan, I need to write a speech! But I have no idea where to go or what to do… I have a party to organize and I’m still lost in a world of ideas… I knew something needed to be done so I thought who better to turn to then my good friends from all over the globe…

I feel incredibly honored to be a best man, but I have no idea what I’m meant to do… apart from that, I have no idea what the role of the best man is in my own wedding… this is all exciting but also very confusing!!!

Were you ever apart of a bridal party? Got any advice as to what Ryan and I should do as best men?

A Good Text is Hard to Find

2009-01-08T08:19:00.000-08:00

This is absolutely brilliant... I came across it on a mates blog and thought I'd share it with you...

Thanks Steven!

Originally taken from here.

NEW BLOG: The Senekal Family

2009-01-06T10:56:00.001-08:00

As you're aware, I'm always on the lookout for some interesting blogs...

I was plesantly suprised to see that 2 of my good friends who are really sold out for God have started blogging again...Brad and Kate have just recently had a beautiful baby who reflects the both of them in so many ways...

Check out their most recent blog about their first Christmas together as a family here.

If you're aware of any other great blogs, share the love!!!

The suffering spiritual life of Jesus – Mat. 4

2009-01-03T12:06:00.000-08:00

Whilst reading through Mat 4, I was lead down an interesting train of thought and I was hoping you could in some way guide me.

I recently read a book written by a Catholic Scholar (I think he is) named Albert Nolan, titled “Jesus Today.” I highly recommend you get yourself a copy of this book. He challenged my understanding of Jesus in so many positive ways. It’s an encouraging read.

Anyway, whilst reading through his comments on Mat 4, he suggested that perhaps we’re not meant to read this passage in a literal sense. Perhaps Jesus did not go into a physical desert as so many believers and non-believers are lead to believe. Perhaps, Jesus rather entered a period, like many of us believers do, where he felt distant from God. A place where he felt as if his prayers were getting him no where.

This thought fascinated me… it allowed me to take on a fresh new perspective of this piece of writing. It excited me because I could finally relate myself to this piece of writing… finally it meant something to me.

It lead me to the question, “How did Mathew know about this journey that Jesus did and the things he said and did?” Perhaps he was with Mathew and he shared his frustrations with him? I don’t know…

This does not however rule out the question as to when Jesus would have shared these details. Did Jesus go into the desert and upon his return he shared his story or did he talk about his suffering spiritual life throughout the 40 days where he just couldn’t connect with God?

Which leads me to another question, could Jesus’ spiritual life actually take a knock? This lead me to ponder over Jesus’ well known words from the cross: “Eloi, Eloi, lama sabachthani?” (Mat 27:46)... are you following my train of thought?

If God was silent, then perhaps Jesus is teaching us to handle the dry patch, the darkness of, the hole in our spiritual journeys…

Could it be that we’re focusing too much on the physical life of Jesus and in so doing be missing the very beauty of the spiritual life our Saviour?

The thing is that reading it from a metaphorical perspective allowed me to give a whole new meaning to the temptations of Jesus (Despite this, I in no way want to replace the true meaning from these temptations, hence my writing of this blog). These temptations suddenly became more real to me.

For example, v8 shares how satan took Jesus to the highest mountain and attempted to get Jesus to bow to him by showing him all the kingdoms of the world. Literally speaking, this has little, if any meaning to me personally. However, after thinking about it from a metaphorical perspective, I began to sense the beauty in Jesus resistance to this temptation. I began to understand the verse as if satan were offering me a CEO position of some well know company where I would believe that I am in fact the ruler of the world. You following me?

My question, after sharing this with you is: “Where do I draw the line in terms of taking the story of Jesus literally and metaphorically?”

Hope you can assist me in some way or another!!!

Thanks for the help…

A small dream came true!

2009-01-02T09:28:00.000-08:00

Ok, so I’m a bit behind everyone else but as of today I have officially joined the console gaming community and I am now able to say that I own a PS2. In fact I can even join in on those gaming chats that guys seem to have around the fire… yeah for me!

I was chatting to a mate of mine who said he had two consoles and thought that I could put the second console to better use than what he was. I stood there in awe… people give away ps2’s???

I have always wanted my very own PS2 and now I can say I do!!! Thanks buddie, you know who you are!

I do however have a question…

What game(s) should I focus my eyes on?

Promise Yourself

2009-01-01T11:34:00.000-08:00

Whilst rummaging though some old school photos, I came across this short note which was given to myself and the other students of the class of 2000. After reading it and being challenged again, I thought I’d share it with you all so that you to may be inspired for the year that lies ahead…

Promise yourself…

To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.
To be just as enthusiastic about the successes of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.
To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be to large for worry, to noble for anger and too strong for fear.
To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words but in great deeds.
To think only the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best.

Wishing you all the best for the future. May you truly live all the days of your life.

Thank You

2008-12-23T00:18:00.000-08:00

I’m so excited! Christmas is just 2days away!!!

But being the individual I am, I always question my motives behind my thoughts, my feelings etc. Of course, that is a good thing, but it does tend to be a bad thing as well at times.

Anyway, I questioned my reasoning as to why I am excited. Am I excited because I’m going to be given loads of gifts?

If so, is that really what the day is all about?

This led me to my reasoning as to why I’m really excited.

Although the 25^th of December is not the actual birth date of Jesus, it is the chosen day that brings much excitement along with it. Excitement around the fact that this baby can and would and did change the course of history for all who would just trust in him…

A beautifully life changing story…

It is a day of remembrance for me personally. As Jesus handed out love, so do I in the giving of gifts to others. This is the way I am able to show my love for them on this very special day.

God gave us the most beautiful gift ever recorded in human history…

That gift? His own son…

As Christmas day draws closer I can’t help but to begin to feel emotional at the thought of the most precious gift that was given to me…

The beautiful thing about this gift is that it’s not only mine! It can be yours to!!! This gift can and will change your life as it did mine… All you have to do is accept it from God…

On that note, I want to publically thank YHWH for the most awesome gift known to mankind… I couldn’t have asked for a better gift.

Have you received his gift? If so, are you thankful for his gift?

A Christmas Wish...

2008-12-20T12:20:00.000-08:00

Check out how Megs and I were able to make such a small Christmas wish a reality...

All this young lady, a police reservist (who is unemployed), wanted was a present for each of her kids... a simple task for us to meet... and so we met it...

We challenge you to do the same in some way...

“Boesak has shown his true colours” – Carl Niehaus

2008-12-19T08:47:00.000-08:00

“The ruling party’s Carl Niehaus said Boesak had shown his true colours.” - JP du Plessis

Whilst working today and casually listening to the news I came across a story which shocked me! I’ve never truly been one to follow politics, but over the past couple of days, I’ve been sitting on the edge of my seat watching and hoping that South Africa’s newest and freshest political party, COPE would change South Africa. I was strongly considering giving them my vote, that was until Alan Boesak was taken on.

Firstly, let me point out that I am completely shocked by this move! How can a political party fighting against corruption hire and employ a convicted criminal? For those who are not aware, Boesak was found guilty of fraud and theft. However, due to a presidential pardon in 2005, his criminal record was expunged. Despite all this, Cope would like to make him the premier of the Western Cape… Aren’t we meant to be moving forward?

The second reason as to why COPE has lost my vote is due to Boesak’s recent actions. After reading this post by Eye Witness news, I question as to whether Boesak is honestly wanting to change South Africa or if he’s just looking for the highest paying position.

Is he in it for the money or is prepared to change South Africa? If the DA offered him a position as their receptionist, would he take it as a step into and towards changing SA?

I doubt it…

To read Boesak’s own words click here.

Will South African politics ever change for the better?

Our Captain, Our Hansie, Our Captain

2008-12-17T10:52:00.001-08:00

I finally did it… I finally watched Hansie (the movie). For a long time I wasn’t to sure if I really wanted to watch the film or not. I had deep childhood memories of my school cricket hero and I didn’t want to damage them further. I wasn’t to sure if I was really ready to hear the whole match fixing story over again. Maybe there was something I missed and that something could damage his image further.

I’m happy to say that was not the case. Rather the film displayed what an honorable man he was. Granted he made some stupid choices, as we all do, but he remained the man he always was… a follower of Christ.

I can still remember the day I sat in front of my TV, tears forming in my eyes as I watched Hansie share his story in and amongst his own tears. That day, Hansie became more of a hero to me than he had ever been.

If you haven’t yet seen it, the film is a remarkable journey through his cricket career, allowing viewers the opportunity to just catch a glimpse of the pain and suffering that he went through. I highly recommend the film. His story is a beautiful story of the reconciliation process between God and man. Where Hansie needed someone to love and hold him, God was there. Unfortunately the public weren’t.

The comments made by the press throughout the film disgusted me and I can not believe that we (the general public and media) acted in the manner we did. Did the cricket board really make such harsh public comments about him as stated in the film?

It seemed so natural for Peter Pollock to share the story of the prodigal son with Hansie when he turned to him for guidance. Where man wanted nothing to do with him (Hansie), God accepted him with open arms…

He is our captain… He is Hansie Cronje

Carpe Manana

2008-12-15T07:39:00.001-08:00

God was willing to submit the Godhead to cultural conditions – that’s the Incarnation.
And we aren’t?
God so loved the world.
And we won’t?
The Church is trying to get out of what God is trying to get into – the world.

(Taken from “Carpe Manana: Is Your Church ready to Sieze Tomorrow” by Leonard Sweet Pg 26)

I absolutely love this quote! It really gets me thinking in terms of how the Church should be moving along with culture. God the almighty creator of the heavens and the earth submitted to human culture in order to reach us, should the church then not do the same in return? He is definitely bigger than culture, and so the Church also has more to offer than the circular world we find ourselves in. But many are not aware of this…

If this is the case, which I believe it to be, then we’re living out the great reversal which Luke so passionately teaches and pushes us towards… We are as much the Biblical Church as we aren’t the Biblical Church.

So then, perhaps Leonard Sweet is right on the money when he suggests that as believers of Christ we should stop trying to Carpe Diem (seize the day) and rather move forward and Carpe Manana (Seize Tomorrow)…

Are you moving along with culture or are stuck in today?

A Changed Man: Brian 'Head' Welch

2008-12-12T09:42:00.000-08:00

For years I followed KoRn as a young guy at school. If you aren’t aware of who KoRn is, then I suppose the best way I could describe them is: a hard rock / metal band. I aboslutley loved their stuff.

Despite my KoRn addiction (if I can call it that), I reached a point where the lyrics just really rubbed against me. The lyrics just seemed to go against my life philosophy and so I finally gave up my KoRn. Sounds funny I know… I still believe that these guys are so gifted musically and can’t wait to see what God can do through them musically…

Imagine my surprise and joy when Brian Head Welch announced his coming to Christ. I was over the moon!!! This dudes testimony is insane!!!! I was so encouraged by his story, I could not but just worship the living God. Man, He is soooo real. Don’t believe me? Watch Head’s story posted here or here to see what I’m talking about.

The exciting bit is the fact he’s just started his own record label and has just recently released his first album!!! WOOOHOOO!!!! If you’re into heavy music you can get his new album here. You can also get his life story here.

If anyone wants to get me a really cool Christmas present, I’d be quite happy with either the book or the CD… I’m even open to second hand books… hint hint Justine

He gave birth to his own brother?!?

2008-12-11T11:15:00.000-08:00

What is the weirdest medical story you’ve ever come across? I bet you’ve never heard about the boy who had his brother living inside of him!!! It seems to be a case of the Aliens movies coming to life… How do you react when you’re a dude and a doctor says to you that there is another dude growing inside of you!?!?

Here is a piece of the article taken from ‘interesting facts’:

India resident Sanju Bhagat always had bit larger stomach, but he got extremely worried when it suddenly started growing bigger and bigger. Thirty year old Sanju Bhagat was rushed to hospital and his stomach condition was diagnosed as an stomach tumor. To a doctor's surprise it was something extremely different and very unusual. From the birth Sanju had his twin brother living inside of him like a parasite. This phenomenon is extremely rare since parasite twin brother has to survive by leaching on its brother’s blood supply. This bizarre medical conditions is called fetus in fetu and it occurs when a fetus gets trapped inside of its twin. Doctor Mehta who was operating Sanju Bhagat said: "First, one limb came out, then another limb came out. Then some part of genitalia, then some part of hair, some limbs, jaws, limbs, hair."

Check out the video here

Have you heard of any other weird medical stories?

Even your pets can catch the Christmas spirit...

2008-12-09T11:08:00.000-08:00

This is who God is...

2008-12-08T09:35:00.000-08:00

Have you ever thought about how you would describe who God is if you met someone who knew absolutley nothing about a/the Muslim, Christian, Eastern god(s)...

Consider this response taken from I am bored:

It was written by an 8 year old, Danny Dutton of Chula Vista, CA, for his third grade homework assignment. The assignment was to explain God. Wonder if any of us could do as well?

One of God’s main jobs is making people. He makes them to replace the ones that die, so there will be enough people to take care of things on earth. He doesn’t make grown-ups, just babies. I think because they are smaller and easier to make. That way He doesn’t have to take up His valuable time teaching them to talk and walk. He can just leave that to mothers and fathers.

How would you or your children describe the god you know or serve?

Video Blog 2: The will you marry me blog

2008-12-03T11:00:00.000-08:00

Looking for the baby Jesus under the trash

2008-12-02T11:50:00.000-08:00

When I wrote this blog, I think I got IT… I thought that seeing that we’re entering the Christmas period, maybe I should pull it out again and share it with those who have not yet read it…

Enjoy...

Looking for the baby Jesus under the trash

It's the 10th of December today. We're still fifteen days away from Christmas. Why on earth are we having a Christmas lunch today? This was the question running through my head. It was through this lunch that the Kruger family showed me what love is, but one little individual, Nathan, not only showed me, but taught me as well. I owe quite a substantial amount to this little guy. Thanks Nathan, this article's for you.

Allow me to explain why it is that we had ended up having a rather early Christmas lunch. The Kruger family had family visiting from Pretoria who sadly (I admit) are unable to spend Christmas day with them. In fact they're leaving tomorrow (the 11th) to head back home. Hence the early Christmas lunch. However, the story doesn't end there. This lunch had more attached to it. Quite a substantial amount more. More than I honestly expected.

I've been thinking a bit about this whole "Christmas" thing for quite sometime now. I always seem to get annoyed with the season. What is it about Christmas that seems to annoy me? Why is it that I get hacked off with the world? Perhaps it's the same reason I get annoyed around Easter. Everything is so commercialized, we seem to have veered so far off course that we don't even seem to know where the course is anymore. Bono, a role model of mine, made quite a profound statement that really got me thinking along the line of what Christmas really meant or means to me.

The statement you ask? Quite simply, whilst in a conversation with a friend of his (I think), he was talking about Christmas and he ending up saying that he was searching for the baby Jesus underneath the trash. Quite a statement. That definitely explained the place where I was at. I had lost Jesus and I needed to find him. The problem was I just didn't know where or how to begin.

How do I find Jesus underneath all the trash?

However, I didn't realise I was very close to solving this dilemma of mine.

Megs, a friend of mine keeps asking me why it is that I'm against the Christmas spirit and I keep replying with the same answer, "I'm not against it." Then she asks me about decorations and again I reply with "I'm not against the decorations." Not at all. Christmas decorations are great. All I'm really against is the concept behind them. The decorations are great. They add to the mood, the atmosphere. Are those the right words to be using? Probably.

What does annoy me, is the fact that decorations seem to now be about money. Money. It doesn't stop there though. Christmas in its entirety seems to now be about money. Profit. Money is all Christmas seems to be about today. It's because of this that I've realized that it's not only myself with this dilemma, we all seem to have lost Jesus. What happened to him? Does anyone know where he is?

I do.

I know exactly where he is and so does Bono.

He's (Jesus) stuck underneath all the trash and it's a problem.

A problem which I'm not really sure we can fix on our own. He's stuck underneath all this commercialism. Most of us have seem-ably missed the true concept behind Christmas. We've buried Jesus under the trash of a now commercialized Christmas. We need to all work together to change this issue. However, I sadly don't really see that happening in the near future.

Christmas for myself, is about Jesus.

Love

I only realized that today. Today I was given the opportunity to experience what I feel Christmas is really about. I experienced parents putting a smile upon a little boys (aged 7) face. Their son clearly means the earth and more to them. It was absolutely incredible. For some time now, Nathan's friends were telling him that Santa wasn't real. In an effort to prove them wrong and show him love I was taught a valuable lesson. He won't understand the concept of love yet, but I do. These two incredible parents taught me so much about love today.

How'd they do that?

Well, what they did was quite simple. Small gifts were organized for Nathan and his younger brother, who's just about walking now. Meg's and I wrapped the gifts, well actually Meg's did, I just watched. I can't wrap presents at all. Is there a course I could possibly consider attending to address this issue? This was obviously all done without Nathan knowing a thing. Once the gifts had been wrapped, Robert, a friend of ours, had the privilege of dressing up as Santa. I say privilege as it was really him that placed the smile upon Nathan's face.

Once everything was ready, gifts wrapped, Robert in his red suit and white beard, we were ready to make Nathan's day. All together, we went outside, grabbed a chair and pretended to relax in the sun. Dam it was hot! This Cape Town weather is amazing. We were now ready for the operation to take its course. Whilst sitting and having innocent conversation amongst each other, Santa suddenly popped into the yard, dropped a bag and was off in a flash, all without saying a word, thus eliminating any suspicion of Robert not being the real Santa. The look upon Nathan's face was priceless. Nathan was up in a flash (after a short period of shock) and out the gate on a quest to find Santa. Thanks to Mr Kruger, Megs dad, Santa was in a car and off in a flash. Santa works with cars now, not reindeers, its 2006!!! For a while, Nathan attempted to see if he could find Santa, but was obviously (and thankfully) unsuccessful.

When he got back, we showed him the bag that Santa had dropped before running off. Nathan, I must admit did seem a bit freaked out at this point, until his mother checked the bag and showed him there were gifts inside with his name on them. There was also a short note to Nathan from Santa saying that he just popped in to prove that in fact he was and is real. Nathan's smile was by far the most beautiful thing I've seen (along side my niece) in quite some time.

How absurd, I'm not naïve, but a 7 year old taught me the true meaning of Christmas. He helped me find Jesus again. His smile shared with me exactly what Christmas is all about, exactly what love is all about and exactly what Jesus is all about.

Love

Love is what Christmas is really all about.

Now, thanks to Nathan, I can say that I've found Jesus underneath the trash.

Have you?

Broken We Kneel - A Short Story

2008-11-26T06:41:00.001-08:00

Taken from Broken We Kneel

By Diana Butler Bass

One day [my daughter] Emma saw a woman walking toward us covered in a veil and asked the inevitable, “What’s that, mommy?” “Emma,” I answered, “that lady is a Muslim from a far away place. And she dresses like that – and covers her head with a veil – because she loves God. That is how her people show they love God.”

My daughter considered these words. She stared at the woman who passed us. She pointed at the woman, then pointed at my hair, and further quizzed, “Mommy, do you love God?”

“Yes, honey.” I laughed. “I do. You and I are Christians. Christian ladies show love for God by going to church, eating the bread and wine, serving the poor, and giving to those in need. We don’t wear veils, but we do love God.”

After this, Emma took every opportunity to point to Muslim women during our shopping trips and tell me, “Mommy, look, she loves God.” One day, we were getting out of our car at our driveway at the same time as our Pakistani neighbors. Emma saw the mother, beautifully veiled, and, pointing at her shouted, “Look, mommy, she loves God!”

My neighbor was surprised. I told her what I had taught Emma about Muslim ladies loving God. While she held back tears, this near stranger hugged me, saying, “I wish all Americans would teach their children so. The world would be better. The world would be better.

(Quoted from McLaren, B. A Generous Orthodoxy. Pgs 298-299)

Do you see the same beauty I find in this story?

Lunch and Dessert in One!!!

2008-11-25T09:55:00.000-08:00

This past weekend has proven to be a rather busy one! With my engagement and graduation in the space of two days, I was completely wiped out by Monday. I couldn’t help but get home from work and hit the sack. I slept like a baby!!! Why do people say they slept like a baby when everyone knows that babies barely sleep at night?

Anyway, what I wanted to share with you before I share about my graduation was the lunch that Megan and I had after my graduation on Saturday. I’m sure many of you have never even heard of this meal let alone actually tried it!!! Megan and I both had chocolate hamburgers for lunch… Megan’s was more of a kiddies burger where as mine was the adult burger. A adult chocolate burger?!?! Megan doesn’t eat much, hence the kiddie burger… Mine was supposed to be a Chocolate and chilli burger, but I really didn’t taste any chilli. Megan’s had sprinkles on hers!!! Meat and sprinkles?!?!? I think we both deserve a round of applause for bravery :)

Although I did enjoy it, I don’t think I’d ever eat it on a regular basis…. A meat patty covered in chocolate sauce is just not the regular meal one looks forward to…

Would you try this burger or have you eaten anything similar?

Memories of Cornerstone Christian College

2008-11-23T05:57:00.000-08:00

These are some of the fun and memorable times at Cornerstone Christian College... If there is one thing I want to share about the college, it is that CCC is a AWESOME COLLEGE!!!

I don't take Jesus seriously...

2008-11-20T09:53:00.000-08:00

Quoted from Jesus Today – a Spirituality of radical freedom
By Albert Nolan
Pg (XVII)

On the whole we don’t take Jesus seriously – whether we call ourselves Christians or not. There are some remarkable exceptions, but by large we don’t love our enemies, we don’t turn the other cheek, we don’t forgive seventy times seven times, we don’t bless those who curse us, we don’t share what we have with the poor, and we don’t pull our hope and trust in God. We have our excuses. I am no saint. It is not meant for everybody, surely? It’s a great ideal, but it’s not very practical in this day and age.

My proposal will be that we learn to take Jesus seriously, and that it is precisely in this day and age that we need to do so.

Does this piece of writing relate to you?

We have the answer!!!

2008-11-18T11:04:00.000-08:00

[This blog is directly aimed at those attending the LifeChurch.tv Internet Campus experiences. However, it is not only limited to them! If you do not attend or have alternatively never heard of LifeChurch.tv, we would still love to hear your views, thoughts and opinions. Above all, we’d love to have you join us for an awesome experience: www.lifechurch.tv/int]

One of the core values of LifeChurch.tv is that we all do life together. We strive to live life the way it was meant to be lived: Together. That is what it is all about. We are the community of God making a difference in each others lives and the world around us.

We are different.

We are children of God.

We are a family.

This is why Bobby and I are serious about helping you find the right life group. We want you to really experience this love we’re talking about. We’ve experienced it and we want you to experience it as well.

A task which is proving to be more complicated than initially anticipated. So we’re asking for your help…

All we need from you is just your thoughts on these areas where we’re brainstorming ourselves…

(1) What is a real community?
(2) How can we as online individuals achieve this concept of community?
(3) What do you enjoy or not enjoy about life groups? (Both online and in the physical sense?)

If you choose to take some time answering all (or even one) of the questions, thank you so much! You are helping us more than you could ever imagine! You’re playing a huge role in helping us build a Biblical online community…

We (both Bobby and I) really appreciate you more than you’ll probably ever know!

We love you all…

I committed adultery and I’m sorry…

2008-11-16T08:38:00.000-08:00

“I’m sitting at my computer with tears forming. I am praying, but not with words. This prayer is born in my heart. At this very moment, I’m aware of God’s presence. He is here, with me. I’m sitting in a comfortable chair, typing these words and overwhelmed by God. As I’m typing – or trying to – I am worshiping him, needing him, crying to him. Nothing is wrong. My family is healthy. Our church is growing. Life is good. Yet everything is wrong. As good as everything appears, I’m in spiritual agony.” – Craig Groeschel

This past week I’ve been reading an interesting book. Perhaps it’s the book I was meant to read at this specific time in my spiritual life. It’s a book which has challenged me in more ways then one. It made me really think why I may be on my death bed with regards to my spiritual life. It made me realize that I’ve been living an adulterous lifestyle. It made me realize I’ve lost it.

It didn’t offer me all the answers, but it has got me thinking. Perhaps I’m just not heading in the right direction. Perhaps Herbet Cooper is right… I’m not driving, I’m making use of cruise control. I need to find it again.

Jesus became an everyday aspect to me. He was just something that was apart of my everyday life, but wasn’t really apart of my everyday life. Does that even make sense!?!

That got me thinking… and Craig put my thoughts across the way I needed to hear it: I’m an adulterous individual.

I’ve realized that I’ve been following a bride I shouldn’t be following. I’ve been infatuated with a bride who is not my own. Everything I’ve done for days, months possibly even years has revolved around this bride. I’ve been adulterous. She has a husband… and it’s not me…

The Church has consumed me.

I’ve realized that my eyes were not in the right area. It was all about the church and not Him.

It’s time for me to repent and change my ways… because I know and believe that He is the source of life and without Him, I will not be able to live, and the church would seize to exist…

Man Builds Noah's Ark

2008-11-13T03:40:00.000-08:00

I received an interesting email today which I thought I would share with you. I was sent it as a joke (because of my various beliefs of the Bible). After many discussions surrounding metaphorical and literal interpretation we all had a good laugh and agreed to disagree. Ah, the beauty of conversation…

Here is Fox News insight on the story: Man Builds Noah's Ark

Here are the pictures I was sent with the email.

Life goes on….

2008-11-12T08:29:00.000-08:00

Since my ‘I think I’m dying’ blog I’ve been receiving many questions as to how I’m doing now personally. Well, to get you all up to date, I have spent time chatting to the various mentors who keep me accountable. These guys I consider to be the best thing for me at the moment. They’re open to me being as honest as I can possibly be which is great. I thank God for you guys!

As for those who follow my blog, I thought the best way I could display where I am currently at in terms of my personal spirituality would be with one of Peculiar People’s hit songs. I’m not to sure of the story surrounding the song, but at this point it explains perfectly where I’m at.

Maybe Gary and the band were in a similar position when they wrote it. I’m not sure. I am curious though as to what the story behind these words actually is… If anyone does know of the story, I’d love to hear it.

But as I’ve moved forward, there is more… I’m now aware of that!

Water Of Love

Some days I’m in a strange place
I feel like I’m falling far from your love
I do what I don’t want to
Trying to be for you who I should be

On my own I’m going nowhere
I’m not satisfied with this at all
I’ve been waiting for your river
I’ve been waiting here for far too long

I’ve been listening to you say
That you’ll never leave me
You’ll always be there
Sometimes hard to believe you
When I cannot see you
I don’t want to doubt

Take me to the river
Let me sink into your water of love
I just want to know that you are with me
As I walk through this life

We are heroes...

2008-11-10T02:56:00.000-08:00

We are heroes...

You to can be a hero - www.lifechurch.tv/int

Saving Private Ryan

2008-11-06T10:19:00.001-08:00

I just finished watching Saving Private Ryan (I know I'm a bit behind!!). A rather rough movie to watch if you’re not into war movies… there was a lot of blood…but none the less I felt drawn to the story. It reminded me of my life as a follower of Christ within the Church.

The film covered many issues which we face in our day to day lives. Issues such as ethics, leadership etc. There are many things within the movie and I’m sure Glen, Rob and Wayne would have a filed trip with this one…

The one point I immediately connected with was the discussion on how one would respond to an officer who gave the platoon the mission. Depending on the rank, the responses changed. Kinda got me thinking about the life of the Christian… we moan and groan to the person sitting next to us but are polite and sincere to the pastor, bishop etc.

There is plenty in this film worthy of discussion. Issues such as faith and violence in one film… I’m always keen for a chat and some coffee if you wanna explore the movie further.

Otherwise, what did you guys think of the movie?

Could this be the worlds worst employee?

2008-11-05T09:10:00.000-08:00

For my American readers, CUM books is a local Christian book store here in South Africa. Imagine you called your local Christian book store and got a response like this!!! I really think I need to stress the importance of reading one's CV when considering employing them... just a thought!!!

I think I’m dying…

2008-11-01T12:44:00.001-07:00

My time under the guidance of wise theologians is rapidly coming to an end and it is now that I am beginning to be faced with the question I really didn’t and don’t want to answer. I’m finally being forced to answer it. The question I kept running away from. The question I kept turning my eyes from.

I was faced with it during my time at college, but I just ignored it. I thought I was imagining things. But it seems I was wrong. It’s real. It’s a very real question…

Perhaps it’s not just one question… perhaps it’s a couple of questions…

Am I a code red patient?

Am I staring death in the eyes?

Am I spiritually dying?

Or worse yet, am I already dead?

I’m not saying that I have lost all faith in Jesus. With my knowledge of Him and His work, I doubt I ever will. Well, I hope I never will… What I am saying is this… I like Him. I enjoy following Him. I enjoy ‘being’ His follower…

Thing is I feel like my spirituality is either dead or on the verge of dying.

Could it be perhaps because of the immense amount of pressure I was under to make sure I complete the work load at college? Could it be that because I was so pressurized into doing things at a rapid pace I’ve emotionally given in? Could it just be that I’m fed up with Christ’s followers? Am I just tired of Christianity? Am I just tired of religion?

I’m not really sure to be honest.

I don’t know what’s going on inside of me…

I’m trying to open up my heart. I’m trying to see what I look like from the inside out. I’m trying to see what He sees… but I can’t…

I just can’t…

I just don’t seem to get ‘it’ like the others anymore...

I’m bored…

It seems there’s supposed to be more…

There is meant to be more right?

Don’t vote for Barak, he’s a politician!!!

2008-10-30T11:12:00.001-07:00

I’ve been following the whole political saga in the States now for a while and so I’ve been reading many different interviews. This one in particular made me squirm a bit. Craig (Gross), I have to agree with you buddy… if Stephen Baldwin speaks for the entire Christian community, then the American Christian Community looks like a bunch of idiots. Stephen should consider sitting down and not talking, cause it seems that he himself is not even sure what he’s talking about…

Because of the length of the interview I just wanted to show you 2 questions and their answers so that you can get an understanding of what I’m talking about. You can check out the full interview here.

Q: Is Barack Obama the wrong choice for our country?

A: No, Barack is not the wrong choice. I just don’t think he's the right choice. Barack Obama is clearly a smart guy, talented. I think that guys like Obama, like Clinton, have had their eyes on this goal for a long time … becoming President of the United States. I don't believe personally that Barack Obama cares for America as authentically as John McCain.

Q: Why?

A: He's a politician.

I feel so alive

2008-10-25T10:09:00.000-07:00

After chatting to a friend of mine yesterday I was reminded of the real me. I was reminded that I am alive… Not only that, I was reminded that I can be me. I don’t need to be someone else… I can be who I am, who I was created to be. I am alive… I am Jason…

I was reminded of these words which I’m sure you were at one time or another challenged by:

Everyday is a new day
I’m thankful for every breath I take
I won’t take it for granted
So I learn from my mistakes
It’s beyond my control,
Sometimes it’s best to let go
Whatever happens in this lifetime
So I trust in love
You have given me peace of mind

I feel so alive for the very first time
I can’t deny you (I feel so alive)
I feel so alive for the very first time
And I think I can fly

Sunshine upon my face
A new song for me to sing
Tell the world how I feel inside
Even though it may cost me everything
Now that I know this, so beyond I can’t hold this
I can never turn my back away
Now that I’ve seen you
I can never look away

Now that I know you (I could never turn my back away)
Now that I see you (I could never look away)
Now that I know you (I could never turn my back away)
Now that I see you (I believe no matter what they say)

(Written by Sonny of P.O.D.)

Have you forgotten that you to are alive?

Porn Sermon: My First Video Blog

2008-10-21T10:27:00.000-07:00

Hey guys...
Here is my first attempt at a video blog. Let me know what you think...

A short message to our friends @ LifeChurch.tv

2008-10-20T08:23:00.000-07:00

Hey guys...
Myself and Megs recently got a new camera which has a video recording fucntion. After playing with it a bit, we decided to try and make you guys a short and sweet message... Keep in mind that this was our first attempt at putting something like this together, so be gentle on us!!! lol!!! I'm still learning about all the funky stuff one can do with Windows Movie Maker... You guys got any tips?

An attempt to please all Christians...

2008-10-13T07:51:00.000-07:00

After reading and participating in a couple of discussions about what the Church should and shouldn’t be, I’ve decided that I’m going to try and please all of these nutty theologians and church goers.

I have decided that I am going to produce the newest and by far the most outstanding sim game ever…

For the theologian and church going individual, I present:

SIMCHURCH…

The game that will allow you to be the pastor of your very own church. Heck, if you don’t like the word pastor, then call yourself a Reverend or maybe just the guy who leads the discussion group. The choice is yours! Post-modern, liberal, conservative, confused… you can be whoever you want to be!

You even get to choose when and where you meet! The bar or the local cathedral… again, the choice is yours! Why even meet at all? After all you are the Church!

We can’t forget about worship! Rock away to contemporary songs or sing some old hymns… music doesn’t fit your needs? Then light up the candles and pray away!

SimChurch is so advanced you can even choose whether you want to rip people off with their tithes by preaching that they’ll go to hell (if you choose to let it exist) if they don't tithe or you can simply tell them that are able to tithe should they choose to…

Choose to have set doctrines or not… Argue and beat homosexuals and those who commit adultery… Throw stones at those who are sinners whilst knowing that you’re a purified saint!

Create and run a church the way YOU WANT IT TO BE RUN!!!

After all, the church is all about YOU!!!

SimChurch… the game for Christians that want it there way!

Join me this coming weekend...

2008-10-10T08:56:00.000-07:00

The worlds ugliest rugby jersey...

2008-10-09T03:04:00.000-07:00

Could this be the world’s ugliest rugby jersey? Would you wear it?

I have a good friend who says the Stormers would look good in it… :P

Jesus, who's he?

2008-10-08T06:13:00.000-07:00

We’re talking about unity in one of my lectures today in which my lecturer Dr. Wayne Herman posed the question, “How do we find unity within our vast differences in understanding who Jesus is?” Brian McLaren offers wonderful insight into the various interpretations of who Jesus is surrounding the various main line denominations in his book A Generous Orthodoxy…

I’m curious to see just how vast our interpretations and understandings of Jesus are…

So, how do you answer the question: “Who is Jesus?”

Hate Mail…

2008-10-06T08:51:00.000-07:00

I was listening to an old “Dirty Little Secret” podcast in which Craig Gross and Mike Foster (founders of XXXchurch) were chatting about some of the hate mail they have received in the past… Some of it was just silly, others were funny and some were rather disturbing…

One stuck out above the rest, an absolute classic…

Dear God,

Please protect me from your followers.

Amen

What is the "emerging church"?

2008-10-02T14:27:00.000-07:00

What is the "emerging church"?

By John Piper March 12, 2008

"Emerging" and "emergent" are sometimes distinguished.

Emergent seems to be a reaction—among younger believers primarily, 20- and 30-somethings—to several things. In my judgment it's not a very healthy reaction, though I can understand why it might happen.

On one hand it seems to be a reaction against the large, plastic, mega-church phenomenon where relationships are not paramount. The emphasis on bigness, success, slick marketing, and super-duper high-powered worship services all feels very plastic, commercial, and not real, poetic, gutsy and down-to-earth. So there is a reaction against that.

On the other hand it's a reaction to formalized doctrinal statements. The emergent church tends to find creative ways of coming together, like sitting on sofas, using candles for lighting, painting the walls—strange and different things like that—because it's fresh and new and it gives release to different peoples' expressions, and so on. And if you try to push them on what they believe they don't like to tell you.

If you Google the emergent church you'll find some emergent websites. You'll notice that they don't like statements of faith. They don't like them because they say that they alienate people. They push people apart instead of relationally nurturing people to come together.

So that's the flavor. It's not defined. There is no list on "this is what it means to be emergent." It's just kind of a general reactionary movement.

Q: What concerns you most about the emergent church?

The single greatest concern for me is their attitude towards doctrine. Stylistic things are neither here nor there. They come and go: whether you meet in a home or meet in a church, sit in a circle or sit in rows, paint on the walls or not—they're all just peripheral issues. They're the wine skins, not the wine.

The issue is their attitude towards truth. I'm deeply concerned about it, and I think that it will be the undoing of the emergent church as it has come to be. They don't believe that truth itself is an objective propositional thing that has a yes and a no. Nothing is ever either/or, good or bad, right or wrong, ugly or beautiful. It's all vague.

I've talked with some emergent types and tried to understand even their concept of truth, and you can't get your hand around it.

Here's a typical kind of response. One person made an accusation that the emergent church's view of doctrine is like trying to nail Jello to the wall. I mentioned that to one of them and his response to me was, "Why would you want to nail Jello to the wall?" That's clever, right? Yes it is, but it shows that that Jello is there. You just don't nail it to the wall. You eat jello. You cut it in cubes, etc. But you don't nail it to the wall.

So all of this "nailing to the wall" of theses—doctrines that you would subscribe to—they're not at home with that kind of talk. They regard their position here as a virtue, I think, but I regard it as the undoing of their movement.

Now let me clarify one other thing. I said earlier that emergent and emerging aren't necessarily the same.

Emerging might be used by some people—like Mark Driscoll—to describe a proper reaction that is taking place against some of the negative things going on in the church, but a reaction that doesn't throw away the doctrines.

So Mark is a very vigilantly biblical, reformed person when it comes to what we ought to believe. And he would want to stress that a big piece of that emerging church is not just its reaction to certain unreal things in middle class Christianity but also a very intentional mission orientation. The word "missional" is kind of the "in" word today. And a church that is missional tends to be a church where everything is thought about in terms of making an impact on people around the church who are not Christians. You design everything to think that way. And I think that is a good thing.

So be careful, when you're talking emerging or emergent, to know which group you're talking about. The Mark Driscoll "emerging" type would put a very high premium on biblical faithfulness, truth, doctrine and propositions. But the emergent types would not put premium on that, but would explicitly say on their websites that they regard that kind of emphasis as harmful.

Your thoughts????

Pull your socks up and get your act into gear!

2008-09-12T06:45:00.000-07:00

I was listening to an old Catalyst podcast today which I found in my archives. Gabe Lyons was interviewing Rob Bell and of course, when Rob speaks I listen (purely because if you miss one thing you can’t understand him). I find Rob to be incredibly deep and just as Gabe shares in the beginning of the podcast, “I’m gonna need to go back and listen to it at least another 2-3 times to get through all of the content. Rob is incredibly deep.”

Rob posed a question which really got me thinking. He asked, “If your church had to leave the city/town that it is situated in, would anyone notice? Would any non-believers from your town grieve at the loss of your church?”

Tough question…

I changed it a bit and tried to personalize the question…

If I left my home town today, who would notice? Who would grieve my leaving? Would any non-believers grieve?

Of course, Rob has forced me to go back to the drawing bored to see where it is I’ve gone wrong. Am I really following Jesus? Am I really following His commands? How is my life any different to those who choose not to believe in Jesus and His works? Am I really any different?

The more I explore these questions, the more I realize I need to pull my socks up and (in the words of my mother) get my act into gear…

How about you? If you had to leave your town today, would anyone notice?

Everyone wants to go to heaven

2008-09-11T11:17:00.000-07:00

One day a cat dies of natural causes and goes to heaven. There he meets the Lord Himself. The Lord says to the cat "you lived a good life and if there is any way I can make your stay in Heaven more comfortable, please let Me know". The cat thinks for a moment and says "Lord, all my life I have lived with a poor family and had to sleep on a hard wooden floor." The Lord stops the cat and says "say no more" and a wonderful fluffy pillow appears.

Several days later 6 mice are killed in a tragic farming accident and go to heaven. Again there is the Lord there to greet them with the same offer. The mice answer "All of our lives we have been chased. We have had to run from cats, dogs and even women with brooms. Running, running, running; we're tired of running. Do you think we could have roller skates so we don't have to run anymore?" The Lord says "say no more" and fits each mouse with beautiful new roller skates.

About a week later the Lord stops by to see the cat and finds him snoozing on the pillow. The Lord gently wakes the cat and asks him "How are things since you are here?" The cat stretches and yawns and replies "It is wonderful here. Better than I could have ever expected. And those 'Meals On Wheels' you've been sending by are the best!”

Thanks to Joffers my boy from The Rude Awaking on Highveld Stereo for this corker!!!

LifeChurch.tv Killing Church Members

2008-09-10T05:56:00.000-07:00

I came across this blog by Jesse Phillips yesterday on the catablog. I loved the title of it as it really got across my personal feelings with regards to church membership.

LifeChurch.tv Killing Church Members

Craig Groeschel recently announced they will no longer be having "church members." He said:

"it's going away, and the reason is because for years and years we've done it, and we just did it because other people did it and in my mind, it always kind of bothered me some because I thought, 'Well, if you are a believer, you're already a member of the family of God, but you still join a church because that's what you do,"

Is there anything you're doing that you do just because everyone else is doing it? Is everything you're doing wise and biblical? Christ didn't call us to uphold and honor traditions of men (He reprimands the Pharisees for this in Mark 7:1-13 ), but rather to effectively share the message of his love with the sick (outsiders) and make them disciples.

As leaders in the body of Christ, we should be periodically challenging the assumptions and traditions we have received from previous generations - lest we grow stale and lose our ability to engage outsiders.

What other traditions are we following that don't make sense anymore?

The stuff legends are made of...

2008-09-09T04:44:00.000-07:00

It would seem that the South African Paralympic team know how to get things done! I can’t help but find these athletes incredibly inspiring. At this moment we’re sitting with 4 gold and 1 bronze medal! Well done guys! Charl Bouwer, Natalie du Toit, Oscar Pistorius and the rest of team SA are incredible role models. They have in so many ways (obviously unaware of the fact) taught me many great lessons. So many times I have found myself in a ditch just wanting to give up. Even if I knew that if I held on, the end would hold something sweeter than I’d ever tasted before. They didn’t give up.

I love this piece of writing about South African Oscar Pistorius. It really grasps the heart of what I’m trying to say…

“Because he is not the best of starters, it looked as if the race had got away from him, as Jerome Singleton of the United States approached the line beating his chest in triumph. But the man they call “Blade Runner” for the pair of prosthetics he wears after losing both his lower legs as an infant to a birth defect has a gear that only really kicks in after about 80m, and he came flying past the surprised Singleton.” (www.supersport.co.za)

I can’t help but wonder, what is it these guys have that we don’t?

Words of Wisdom

2008-09-05T12:29:00.000-07:00

Whether it be through books, TV shows, radio, music or conversations with another person whom we find interesting, we often come across sayings that challenge us in new ways. Some make us laugh. Some make us cry. Others get us thinking. Whatever the quote, we’ve all been challenged and moved in some way…

Here are a few of my favorite quotes:

Being relevant means someone else got there first. We need to stop being relevant and start leading the way. – Erwin McManus

A follower of Christ is a disciplined person. When you commit to Christianity you become like everyone else before you. You do what everyone else has done and still do. That’s why Jesus died. He died to clone us all. [Paraphrase] – Erwin McManus

I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ. - Mahatma Gandhi

Christians are hard to tolerate, I don't know how Jesus does it. – Bono

I still haven't found what I'm looking for. – Bono

Everyone ends up somewhere, but few people end up somewhere on purpose. - Craig Groeschel

If you don't give to God, you don't love God. Love gives. Don't say you do if you don't give to Him, because you don't. - Craig Groeschel

Where does it come from? This quest? This need to solve life’s mysteries when the simplest of questions can never be answered. Why are we here? What is the soul? Why do we dream? Perhaps we’d be better off not looking at all. Not delving, not yearning. But that’s not human nature, not the human heart and is not why we are here. Yet, still we struggle to make a difference to change the world, to dream of hope, never knowing for certain who we will meet along the way. Who among the world of strangers will hold our hand, touch our hearts and share the pain of trying. - Mohinder Suresh

The higher our view of the worth of human beings, the more we shall want to serve them. - John Stott

I’m talking to real people. – Brandon Donaldson

OH MY GREATNESS!!! - Darren Simpson

BLASTING THROUGH THE ‘POD’SPHERE…FROM SOUTH AFRICA TO THE WORLD! – Derek the Bandit

What are some of your favorite quotes?

The heart of McLaren

2008-09-04T02:03:00.000-07:00

As many of you know, I am an avid follower of Brian McLaren’s work. He has written many great books which have always challenged me and still do today. Although I don’t always agree with his theological outcomes, I admire his persistence to make ones spirituality their own and not the church as an institution, something so many of us fall into.

Recently labeled as one of the 25 most influential evangelicals in America, McLaren was faced with the question at a recent conference, “What do you think about gay marriage?” He simply replied, “You know what, the thing that breaks my heart is that there's no way I can answer it without hurting someone on either side.”

Should we not have an attitude such as McLaren’s? Are we perhaps to opinionated at times thereby hurting others?